What You Can See. What Do You See?
2:52AM Sep 13, 2020
What can you tell about a person by their physical appearance and condition? This question has recently been asked by a few of my website members. I'd like to think that people don't judge each other. But yet I know that that is not true. I know that every time I am out in public or dealing with people I am being judged on how I look. We all know this is the way the game is played. But is this game really fair? within a few seconds of seeing someone whether on a date or at the grocery store, we decide on numerous things about them from how smart they are to how likely they are to commit a crime.
Surprisingly, are first impressions can be remarkably accurate in some instances. In others, they can be wildly off base.
physical characteristics are defining traits or features about your body. These are aspects that are visually apparent knowing nothing else about them. The person The first thing you see when you look at someone could be their hair, clothes, nose or figure, a nice physique. I'd be lying if I said this doesn't contribute to a man's attractiveness.
A nice physique suggests a guy who is strong, motivated and confident. Plus, it's just very aesthetically pleasing. wide shoulders and strong arms are my favorite way. To get good examples of physical characteristics you should look at a person's face, how tall they are, and what they are wearing. When you are paying attention to the details, you can learn a lot about someone. This is important when you are dating. You can avoid this satisfaction.
Your characteristics can play a role in defining how you are treated. While many physical features can be changed, you can improve your appearance to ensure a more positive outlook.
What constitutes nice eyes, eyes that have something in them, be it confidence warm mischief, intelligence or innocence, they need to be eyes with soul in the eyes you want to look into, because they express a lot.
His voice This is actually a pretty big one. It reveals a lot about your personality. The slow speakers sound nice, fast speakers, not as much, yet again, this suggests how mature and confident you are.
If you're attractive, people assume you have other positive traits as well. Thanks to a phenomenon that social psychologists call the halo effect. We tend to assume that good looking people possess other positive qualities aside from their looks, such as intelligence and commitment.
Small things that you can do can change a person's thought about you entirely. By making sure you've watched and put on clean clothes, you can show others you are a little bit classier. Even just a smile can show your friendly not all characteristics. can or should be improved. There are certain physical characteristics that you are born with.
While you can dye your hair, get contact lenses, get attend, or get plastic surgery. Ultimately, you should embrace the unique physical characteristics you have, since they make you who you are.
Confidence. This makes you 1000 times hotter. And I don't mean fake confidence. I mean, a guy who is self assured, knows what he wants in life and knows how he will get a guy who doesn't need to fake his confidence, but a guy who has it because he's done things to gain.
Remember when you're trying to improve yourself, think about how you view others as well. If a man is wearing an old dirty shirt, instead of judging him, it could be that he just finished fixing a car. When I first see a guy, these are the basics that I see first. Find the best term for your needs. Athletic attractive, bald, big, broad, clean cut pude. dapper, dashing, fat, fit. Handsome, hot, robust, rough, rugged, sculpted, sexy, sharp, short, strong, studly, tall 10.
The next thing is after I talk with them, I get the feeling of the man like impressions of aggressive, arrogant, assertive, charming, cocky, confident, dependable, funny. Good friend. Good guy. Hard working. helpful. Hero. humble. Nice player. Powerful. protective, reliable, self aware, smart, tough.
Over the years of experience, I learned that the more a guy can express of each of the similar characteristics, the more attractive they become.
The real skill in dating is to stop self defeating. Do not have predetermined expectations of who you are meeting, or even what you will be doing. Be open to experience each other as you are truthfully and you will be less likely to be disappointed and you may even experience something beyond what you considered.
People can also get a surprisingly accurate read of your personality from a photo. You can tell a surprising amount about personality from a simple face portrait. No matter which position people view you in. They are judging how extroverted the photograph people are, how high their self esteem is, how religious they are, how agreeable they are, and how conscientious they are
using myself As an example, I have seen this happen. A carjacking accident had put me on crutches for a few months, and I had a breathing tube in my neck several times. This has required me to use a wheelchair while healing firsthand. I saw the misconception that people had about me just by my use of the chair. The first was that I was totally helpless. People assume that I could not get anywhere without their help. The second was that I was dumb. People seem totally surprised that a guy in a wheelchair could enjoy a museum and debate history fiercely with a librarian. Neither of these traits are true, if I may say so. I'm a smart man with an independent streak a mile or two wide. I am a person that cheer was not yet that was allowed to define me.
Many guys thought because I was cute and gay. I was weak. I was not a football player. No. However, I did. wilderness survival training and other similar things. I often vet out guys much bigger and stronger than myself. In other words submissive does not mean not powerful.
It is important when you date to keep your mind open to what you are seeing not looking for what you want. That is key.
I leave you with those thoughts into play. When you have your first impression of a person, due to the way they look, please look again, please look under the surface. Please do not judge. You may be surprised what you see when you do and maybe ever have a good night's encounter.