But diet people, but you're not getting that extra benefit of following people who are not in normative bodies. And the thing is, this is like stuff that you can do automatically, right? If your brain is doing this soaking up this information automatically. And so if we can have our brain soak up information that supports us and is not steeped in anti fatness, why not do it. And number five, that takes us to watching shows and movies with predominantly normative bodied people. And so similar to social media, TV shows and movies can impact us greatly. And I think potentially even more because they are able to tell expanded stories about what thinness and fatness mean, alongside imagery. It's not representative of the world to have a group of people who are all thin white, sis, etc, as the only characters of a show, right? That's not what the world looks like. And so you've beat you're being fed ideas about who you are, who humans should look like. And again, your brain is smart, and will soak up that information and make meaning from it. And so I'm not saying that you should never watch that trashy dating show again. I know I will be watching trashy dating shows. But be cognizant of the media you're watching and how one it systemically supports anti fatness and to how it teaches you that your body is wrong. Also is going to help you see things easier, which is kind of a curse. Perceive to perceive how things are maybe unequal. And, you know, taking off those rose tinted glasses being like wow, you know, like I've said before, I used to think the show Sex and the City was super diverse because they had a ginger one. They had a brown head one. They had a blonde one. And then they had another blonde one who was slutty. So, I mean, can you get more diverse than that? Like what the fuck? Really? You know? And so unlearning stuff will help you go back help me go back and say, Oh no, and it'd be jarring, right? Like I started watching. What's this new show that's on Netflix is a Spanish show. Deep fake love. This thing is fucked up. This show is fucked. What they do. Every I think every single person on the show is white, and thin or muscular. It's just like the whiteness, the fantasies. There is one queer couple. Anyway, what they do in this show deep fake love is they the couples split up and they both go live in different houses, right? This this five couples so and then they've got singles in the house. Then during the time, you know, do you know deep fake images, deep fake, deep fake, where they get videos of a celebrity and they're able to copy them and make them say anything that they want. Right? So it's a fake. It was a fake image. You know, it's a fake video, but it looks so good that you cannot tell that it's not that person. And so they've got These deep fake videos of their spouses like gobbling off some dude in the other house. And then they're asked, Is this a fake video? Or is this real? And they're all tortured by it is so unethical. Like they are. You can see they're having these visceral reactions, they are experiencing trauma. And even if it turns out that they're not real, they're still having those experiences and their body remembers, right. Oh my god, it's fucked up. I mean, I still have watched like five episodes. But then, you know what I started noticing being like, oh, only thing people are worth longing. Longing over. That's what my brain said. My brain said that and I said, Okay, time to turn this off. Might go back to it. I don't know. It's fucking Oh. It's, it's too rash. But I mean, if that's your thing, clearly, it's my thing. Anyway, so and as well, I think, you know, things like that. I think things like that. I think is Netflix going to be like, Okay, well, it's okay to show people dating shows where it's everyone's white. Everyone's thin. That's what that's what this person wants. And that's what millions of other views around the world, or is this just boring? And really, really, it's, it's really fucking boring. I mean, I can't barely tell. Tell them apart. You know, all the all the there's one. No, there's to this, because I've got singles in there too. So they've got like a cast of maybe 30 people. There's, I think two racialized people. So I mean, diverse. Sarcasm. Yeah, so I think like, isn't it? It's like, okay, well, they're down with whiteness, you know? Is there going to be like a label, the downbeat of fineness? They don't want no diversity, because I'm they're fucking binging the show? I don't know. Who knows, right? Anyway, okay, so number six. Believing that you are free from anti fatness had a interaction today. A diet account shared my a post of mine that says signs that you're struggling with fat phobia. I looked at the account. All of the posts were not all of them. 75% calories in this thing, how to lose fat, or how to best ways to lose weight. And so I commented saying, looks like you're struggling with fatphobia with the posts that you're on your account. And the account owner replied back saying, No, I'm not that people I know. And I was like confuzzled confused the fuddled because I said, Oh, you're not the one posting all of the calories and, and also, you've put hashtags on my post. There's a post that I made, right, it's my content. They put pasture hashtags on the post of Oh, word, this Oh, word epidemic, lose weight, or they stop a chef and I was like, listen, I said, even I struggle with fat phobia. So you probably do too. So. Yeah, so I will never be free from anti fatness. Because you guess what, I have this gorgeous brain. And I'm going to continue to soak up violent anti fat rhetoric from our world, no matter how much I tried to protect myself. And until we live in a fat positive utopia, we're still going to be bombarded with those anti fat messages. And our brains are going to be as smart and as absorbing and curious as as ever. So they're going to pop up, right? You know, like this example of me saying, oh, only only thin people are worthy of being longed over of being of being thought about and, and, and having someone cry from the fear of losing them. You know, passion, that's for thin people. So anti fatness popped up in my brain doesn't make that make me a bad person. Doesn't mean it's my fault. But it's my responsibility to look at that and say, is that true? No. Okay, well, I'm going to do decided to stop watching the show for now. When thinking about this, this is true. Okay, well, I need to get some fat romance into my head. I need to I need to break this down. And luckily, you know, I've got the privilege of doing This job during this job, right? So I'm thinking about these things. But that idea that that's it, I'm done. I've arrived, I'm, I'm never going to have a bias belief again. I mean, no. Unless you die at that moment, you know. So, you know, and as someone unplugged from the matrix you are. And I think that that that curiosity and that realization that you are not a perfect human being, for me, knowing that I'm not perfect. And also, I'm going to try my hardest. And also I'm going to say, Hey, this is, uh, you know, I fucked up here or whatever, I'm going to endeavor to do those things kind of makes me feel more relaxed, right? Because how hard would it be? How impossible would it be? Especially if you're interested in this stuff? And you're and you probably are, if you're listening to the podcast, how hard would it be to be like, Well, I've arrived, I've got perfect body image, and I never ever think anything anti fat.