gonna change? Naturally you're gonna change because it's gonna evolve on your life. It's a vibration. So once you either raise yourself that way you don't have to turn on money that going through your mind, people are just going to tell you're gonna move different. And at the end of the day, like some people get scared of that. And that's the reason why, you know, toxic stuff is being normalized sneaky. People don't want to meet with themselves. Do I deserve to, you know, you owe it to someone else can I, or that back into their cup to even want that a lot of people just don't know what they want. So they keep traumatized and the cycle keeps going on, people just have to sit back and stop, like, what do I want? What do I expect from the next person? And what can I bring to the tables, you can't ask for something that you can't use in, like a whole 5050 financial thing. Someone could be up on finances, but mentally not there at someone can be done with finances, but mentally, like, you know, they just had that spark. So if it wasn't for that spark, what you are looking for, what do you want? Do you want not? Some people feel like, Oh, you have to get married, and you have to have kids, you have to what do you want? Personally, I don't worry too much about the whole marriage thing, like, kind of got exposed to like liberty on here. So it's kind of like a little rocking, but moreso like focusing on me, that's very wrong fiction. So it's like, trying to come down and like, hurt nobody who's like, I'm not gonna like live like, oh really should lead you in because of the things that come with it. Like, that's not what I want. You