It's interesting that we associate seduction with sex, when in fact, true seduction is the opposite of sex. Sex is when desire is met. seduction is not about the culmination or gratification of desire, it is about the thrill of the desire itself. It is the game that is played as the desire comes closer and closer and closer, and being able to maintain that tension of wanting for a long, long time. seduction is about making him want you not necessarily letting him Have you. Your eyes tell him everything about how you feel. They are, in fact, your biggest weapon when it comes to winning the seduction war. When you're talking to a man you're attracted to, you might get nervous and flood your eyes around. But you're better off looking him directly in the eyes, while smiling while you talk or listen. makes up your expression based on what he's saying. You can raise an eyebrow to indicate that you don't believe him in a playful way, or even wink at him. There are so many ways you can express yourself with your eyes. So do ones that reflect you. You can also make prolonged eye contact with him across a crowded room until he takes notice. Then look away. You've hooked him. But then it seems like there's something more interesting that has taken your attention. This will pique his interest since he wants your attention back on him and he'll walk over. Smile genuinely when he approaches or says something interesting. display that you are confident. The reason I'm always encouraging you to be more confident men love it. If you seem like you're not desperate, that you could take or leave talking to a guy his desire to chase you kicks in. Send seductive texts the secret to knowing how to seduce a man is realizing that not all seduction happens in person. You can also fascinate him via text. The key here is not to be blatantly sexual, but to use innuendo to get him thinking sexy without pushing for it. Touch goes hand in hand with body language, the more often you touch him and we're not talking obvious caresses here, the more he'll want to touch you back. Touch reminds men of Yep, you guessed it sex. So it's a subtle way of saying I want you. If you want to know how to seduce a man with touch, focus on resting your fingers on his forearm, gently squeezing his biceps. oh my what big muscles you have, or laying your hand on his shoulder or back. Try it and see if he reciprocates within a few minutes. Give him a smirk if he uses a cheesy pickup line. You don't want to send him away with his tail between his legs. But you do want him to know you're onto him. Make up your own smiles. Like eye expressions. There are tons of ways when you're on a date or just talking to a guy you want to seduce. Be keenly aware of your body positioning. If your arms are crossed, or you're facing away from him, he won't get the sense that you're interested. On the other hand, if you lean in with your arms propped on the table or your hip, this tells him you're open. If he compliments you smile and look in his eyes and say thank you, or better yet, I know. Hold your shoulders back. shoulders forward says you're insecure. The opposite says you own the room. wear clothes that flatter you look and be attractive but also show your intelligence. There's a fine line between showing off your intellectual side and just being a know it all. If you're trying to seduce a guy, you can talk about books you've read and things you're interested in. But don't start correcting him if he says something wrong. Any I 100% believe that you have to be yourself in order to seduce a man. Otherwise, you come off as inauthentic and he'll see right through you. If you're sexy and confident. You will prove yourself to be genuine. He'll want you mind, body and soul if he sees that you know who you are and what you want, including him.