Oh, man, yes. Okay, so what was like, oh, so playing off of the eighth year and onward, kind of, like I was saying, people like writing them 18 Plus, blah, blah, blah. So then, post war, obviously, in general is super popular. Be that like future, you know, 5, 10, whatever years in the future, a really popular trope is like, you know, dads and love, like they had their families like Harry and Ginny had their kids. Draco and Astoria I had Scorpius like they had their lives and then for whatever reason, like things didn't work out between Harry and Ginny or you know, for Draco, and things changed and then all of a sudden, they were, you know, single obviously, and then people are trying to get them to, like, acknowledge that they always had something for each other, like, you know, over time and so I do always love that like Harry from an earlier like early on stage or even just like you, you know, he gets with Ginny that people could, you know, argue like, oh, it's like, you know, high school sweetheart and then you just continue with that, whether it's right or wrong for you, because in the moment, you're like, "This is real," you, like, that's, that's your feelings are valid in the time, but it can also it can go forever or for a lot of people it doesn't. So once we talked about people changing over time, and it's like, we don't know who it's whether you grow together or you grow apart, so that's kind of, you know, the aspect of them usually growing apart because, you know, be that a lot of times it comes down to Harry and not dealing properly with all his trauma, you know, like just going through the war, losing all like anyone that he had any sort of connection to, you know, as far as like, like Dumbledore, Remus and Sirius and, and his parents obviously well before like he was left with, he still has a family in like Hermione and Ron and the other Weasleys and and Hagrid's and other person that obviously is really you know, important in his life but it's still like losing people like that that you expected to always be there is really you know, is obviously really hard and wizard therapy doesn't exist you know? Even though I love when people write in Mind Healers, you know, like literally like, especially Hermione, I love when Hermione's like Har-ry, seriously, like you need therapy, Ron finally went and he's doing great and like, you know, when I if I've been through it or whatever, like there's nothing wrong, it comes down to the same thing. In real life or in you know, in the wizarding world, stigma of like, especially for men feeling like you have to be strong enough to carry your burdens on your own and not you know, offload those on to other people because that would show you know, weakness but it's like, you're really doing yourself a disservice and your mental health like you're you're making your life harder. And and, like you're miserable. You know, like, it's just you carrying those things on your own is never, like people want to help you people want to be there for you. It's just you think that it's, it would be cruel to offload your pain onto someone else. But really, it's like it you know, it just lightens your load and then relying on people who know how to help you deal with those feelings, you know, like it just so that, yeah, so I've also read like Draco was a Mind Healer, like Harry finally went to go see a doctor and then ended up being Draco for whatever reasons, because he's obviously like, he's obviously like, an expert when it comes to healthy-