If you are a gay man, you need to handle your straight encounters correctly. I'm here to tell you nothing will ever happen unless you act with confidence. when something does happen, it's not going to be like a gay story fantasy where the dude just decides to put out. Instead, you've got to be the one in charge. That process begins by showing confidence. And like it or not, that means carrying yourself in a manly way. If you ever want to get that straight guy off, you need to think like he does. I'm not saying you should pretend to be straight, but instead, be aware of his mindset. Don't hide that you are gay. One of the worst pieces of advice that people give when it comes to seducing a straight guy is to be ambiguous about sexual orientation. How to make the first move this is understandably the most difficult step when it comes to seducing a straight guy. I'm going to cut through all of the BS and get right to it. When the time is right, you will know along the way, he's going to give you important signals you can't ignore. These include laughing at your jokes, asking you questions, and occasionally doing some bro touching. Just go with it. Avoid making the experience. Gay, most straight guys are curious about what it might be like with another man. But the last thing they want is to think what they are doing is gay. We can argue until the cows come home about what constitutes gay, straight, or bi. But that's not the point here. The goal is to connect with him down the road. If he comes back for more, you can amp things up. But that first time, it's best just to get down to business. If you have played your cards, right, he's going to get a hold of you in the future. That's because he not only trusts you, he also knows that you do a good job of getting him off. Don't be the first one to reach out. Instead, let him be the one to do it. He may do it by text or a phone call. Either way, he's the one who needs to make contact, kissing this, I need to stress. There's a part of you that badly wants to make out with him, but you're not sure if it's cool. Don't do it unless he makes a move in that direction. I mentioned this because if he starts to think it's getting emotional, he's going to pull back. Assuming you've done everything right, he's likely going to get in touch with you again. based on experience, I'm going to tell you here that this is not a green light for more aggressive play, you're going to have to go through a period where all he's going to want is quick service. Be open to that. But at some point, he'll curious about what it's like to do more. How and what happens next depends on the guy. I've met straight but curious men who are all about reciprocation. I've met others who want to penetrate. And I've even met dudes who want to feel what it's like to get banged out. Don't fall in love. I cannot stress this enough. Yes, this is easier said than done. That first time you get him, you're going to feel a bunch of emotions. You'll even be tempted to think of him in boyfriend terms. Whatever you do, don't. Regardless of what you think of his sexual orientation, you need to recognize that he considers himself to be straight. We both know that the minute the two of us started messing around, his heterosexuality went out the window. But that's not an argument you want to have with him, or one that you will win. Instead, remember, your connection with him is physical. And it can be that way for a long time. But if you try to make him into your lover, he's going to run away. There's plenty of gay men out there that want to date you and husband up. Go for those guys. Think of the straight man you are doing as just that. Not a couple. Okay, that's it for now. You can have fun with a straight man but keep your perspective honest and real. Also, you should respect their feelings.