the heterosexual repair industry talks about how in the past we're all very much more gayer in society, obviously Before white people came along and said it was bad, white people are the worst. And so, women were with women a lot more men were men a lot more. And so when we decided this was a bad thing, and people said, Listen, you need to be with the opposite sex. men weren't really into it. And so neither were women. And, and so they kind of had to be coached into dealing with each other. You know? Yeah. And how, you know, like, with straight people, there's a lot of kind of, when I get married, all the old ball and chain all my life's over now and people say, you know, I hate my husband and always say that he's the worst, He's so annoying. And, and that's not a lot of what happens in queer relationships. And a lot of times women are be treated like a being being abused and treated terribly. And, and being told that they need to adhere to certain rules. Like, if we think about, they talk about men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Fuck, and I loved that book when I was when I was like, 15. I, that was the first book I ever bought, with my pocket money. I could catch me a man was men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. And I was like, I'm sure I've got the Bible now. Now, and I had to talk to men. And I have to let them be in their cave and lalalalalala. And it's all total bullshit, right? And yeah, pickup artist stuff. I'm so interested by Pickup Artists stuff. Because it's in the book, Jane talks about how how a lot of them are just are just kind of lonely guys, and they are struggling to talk to women. And really, what they need is confidence boosting and the new modern way of pickup artists stuff is a lot of the more modern pickup artists talk about boosting men's confidence so that they can talk to women. And then previously, it was a lot more shady kind of like how to neg women and how to trick them into having sex with you, basically. But yeah, but there was still lots of creepy guys at these conferences who are like, I'm just here to get some high quality policy. Oh, lovely. Yeah, and then ending with like deep, deep heterosexuality is where if you really do love women, men, if men really do love women, then they will love everything about them. And they will seek out womanhood in all its forms, like they'll seek seek out women, women authors and women, content creators and listen to women and all that type of stuff. So that's kind of like deep heterosexuality, where, you know, they actually like the look of women, as women versus women as these shaved and slimmed down and died. And, you know, all of these versions of women that we've been told, is the standard of beauty. So yeah, really interesting book. Really interesting. And one thing about it was, though, like, like, she talks about fat stuff, she mentioned fat people, not in depth, but because it's a book about, about straightness, but she does talk about how fat folks are marginalized. And she talks about how in the queer community, different types of bodies, old bodies, fat bodies, disabled bodies, are often not always, obviously, there's tons of fat phobia and