I was just gonna say, I mean, I also was nodding a lot. It's very weird to say it this way. But I think Jews do death really well. I think we do funerals pretty great. My husband's family is half Jewish and half not. And so I had sort of the direct comparison. He lost several grandparents in a short period of time. And the juxtaposition between the way that we did the Jewish funerals and the way that we did the other funerals was absolutely striking to me. I love how specific Judaism is about it. I think what was hard about doing the sort of vaguely Christian funerals is that at least in the kind of religion that they had observed, there were not a lot of specifics. And so there was so much decision fatigue, and there was a lot of ambiguity. And there was a lot of, well, I don't know, when should we do it, like, this week isn't convenient for this person, and next week isn't good. And Jewish funerals are like, No, you do it tomorrow. There's no compromise. Tyler, I liked this, in your book, you talked about the walking around the block at the end of shiva, it's sort of ceremonial, like we're done, we're back in the world. And then even beyond that, you know, there's the first 30 days. And then there's the year in the yahrzeit, and the unveiling and all of these traditions that force you... you know, when my husband's grandfather died, we all got together. And you know, there was sort of the question of when will we all see each other again, everybody spread out. And a year later, we gathered again for the unveiling of his headstone, and I was like, damn, this is the way to do it. There's like a prescribed way for things to be done. You know, not that death is awesome in any way. But I think a lot of the Jewish funeral customs, they take the guesswork out of what's already a really hard time. And it's funny, because I compare that a lot to the Jewish rituals around birth, you have the child and you're the person giving birth, eight days later, you're supposed to receive guests in your house and have a bris if it's a boy, and boy, did I not want to do that when my son was born. It wasn't my best day. And the whole thing was mildly traumatic, in its own way. But there was something lovely about people coming over and bringing you food and baby gifts, you know, and it was nice to know when and how to do it. And there's there's a lot to be said for a ritual and general, beginning end of life and everywhere in between.