Yeah, this was the middle of the night as far as I discernment. And then I could offer some advice that I did not fail him. And that is how to deal with the aftermath of this. First of all, I had to do everything I could to try to undo this so called the credit card company I've used a credit card with to buy these three gift cards. They were not too encouraging, but they said they would investigate it and get back to us. And then the only other thing besides notifying Milda that her there's an email address out there, a bogus email address. The other thing was to go back to Staples and tell them my story, see if they could do anything. The manager who I spoke with was very sympathetic and He said, and now this is let me just say, this is part of the Public Service feature of this podcast. He said, he said, Do you remember me saying, when I rang you up asking you? Do you know, me, I ask what all these cards are for? And I had said, yes, it's for a good friend. And he let it go at that. But when I went back there the next day, and he asked me, Do you remember that? I said, Yes, he said, That's because it's so common. It happens all the time. So if every listener to this podcast doesn't already know how common that says, and would be unsuspecting, pass, pass on, pass the word. So that I'm the last person who gets duped in this way. And then after, after you've done everything you can, and then then our job. And our job is to let it go. Once you can't change, some mistake, something you regret. There, we need to let it go. Well, easier said than done. Right? Especially when you feel like such a such a fool occurred to me that here I was, I was being exam we're talking about Zen fool with a capital F, that is a, a no nothing someone and more like the idiot Dostoyevsky's novel The idiot, purity of mind. In this case, I felt like a Zen fool small f four. But then the job is how quickly can I put it behind me and forget about the whole thing. And this also gets into the matter of how we use our tension. In Zen practice, we learn how to direct our attention, not just as an exercise, but as a way to not suffer unnecessarily. And I've actually said this in, in workshops, when I open a workshop, I've sometimes said that meditation is the most intelligent thing anyone can do, because it, it determines how we use the mind determines our experience of the world. And then at the workshop, I'll sometimes use an example. So if something happens to you make a bad financial decision, and there's nothing you can do to rewind it, it's done, it's out of your hands, it's nothing to do well, then you have a choice view, continue to dwell on this. What's your mistake, which would be very easy to do? Or do you turn your attention to this, this moment here, not what happened and can't be changed. But this right here, again, this is the the directed use of attention the flashlight make can make all the difference in the world. Any kind of regret we have any kind of bad experience is to to keep our attention in this right here.