And they never actually said they were the body positive icon of the world. We gave them that label, because they happen to be fat and in the public eye, and what are the pressures are they going through, we don't actually know. So actually, their body their choice, they can do what they want, because there's none of our fuckin business. So I did a whole video about that. But then also, it's okay to feel sad when if a fat person that you loved has become temporarily not fat. You know, it's totally valid to also feel sad. But it isn't, see how it shades of grey versus black and white thinking like, we just, you know, the idea but what people are saying is body positive people just love it when people are unhealthy. And we just like, be unhealthy and how dare you try and be healthy. You're a piece of shit if you try and become healthy is not true. So all of those were under the getting confused about what body positivity years, which is a straw man argument. Okay, so when someone says, Well, body positivity is wrong, because you shouldn't say to fat people that they are thin, where you can be like, Oh, that's not what body positivity is about. But body positivity isn't going around telling fat people that they're thin and trying to convince them that they're fat and like what that is what if you want an argument about if you want to argue about the merits of fat positivity or body positivity, let's talk about what it actually means, like the people in all sizes should have equal access This and right and not be discriminated against because of their size. That is it. Like, let's talk about that. And if you believe that, yes, people of all sizes should be discriminated against, then you know, we can talk about that, but it's not. Hey, I think that teenage children should sleep naked with their parents. It's a straw man arguments, because of course, people are gonna say, Well, it probably is inappropriate to be sleeping naked with teenage children. That sounds a bit weird, right? And so everyone can get on the get behind that and be like, yeah, what the fuck these body positive people are so fucking creepy? Well, no, that's not body positivity. So that's the big thing. Now let's go into the other areas that they talk about. So the big thing here, apart from the straw man arguments is that there is a weight limit to respect. And so a lot of people they come in with that. Coming from a place where they feel they're being reasonable, right, and so they're not being like, anyone who is one pound heavier than me is a bad person and should be off the planet. They're like, well, if someone is is curvy, then that's okay. But when it comes to someone who is who is a super fat person or a medium fat person, then they're, that is just gross. And it makes them feel better to say, you know, yeah, a few curves is fine, because I see the value in that person, as a member of society as a sexual object. But if I don't want to fuck you, then it means that your size is too big, and it's too horrible. And therefore you are a problem. So if I can't consume you, or you know, objectify, you, or society uses you as a cog in the machine, then you are not worthy to me in my eyes. And it's all about the perceived value of the fat person. And if they're very fat, then that person genuinely believes that the value of that person is less than a thinner person. And there are so many systems that play with this, this argument. Human humans being machines, only worthy if they are producing in a way that society says is worthy. It's health ism, it's fatphobia. It's sexism. And the truth is, obviously humans are inherently worthy, full stop. It's also ableism. Like, it's all so so when people are saying, you know, there's a limit to respect as a limit, like this is just too extreme. You know, when someone's someone's like, this much bigger than me, then therefore, like war, they're extreme and, and they must have done something terrible to get to that place. And