my husband will text me like, why is this candle compressed? Here? I'm like, God, why is anybody trying to bother me when I'm doing chores? Yeah, right. So I'd like scope creep is one, like, I'm going to do all small task. And I'm going to complete it. And if any other tasks like show up, like maybe I'll make on my to do list, like maybe like do the piano, right? Don't be like just because I'm here, I might as well like, do this next thing when the first thing is only half completed. And that leads like to the second thing, which is sometimes a strategy and sometimes disservice to ourselves. And that's like what I call the pinball method or the Roomba method. Yeah, which is like, if it's in front of me, I do it. And then I noticed the next thing and I do it, but at a certain point, you can't be like, I'm going to take all the papers that I've strewn about on the floor, and tidy them into a pile. Because the next time you try to do that, maybe you notice like, wait, I already have a pile, right? You can't just put up a wall put the second pile next to the first pile. Because they're distinct, right? You don't know me? Yeah. So like in my bedroom, I call this like, Tom laughs at me, I call it floor juggling, right. So like, I want to clean up the pile of stuff that's in between my night table, and my dresser because underneath my night table, that's where my laundry basket is. It's like a little hamper. A basket, put my laundry in there. But sometimes like when I take my clothes off at night, I want to wear them in the morning. And then I'll like fold them up and put them next to that on the floor at but then I'll put two textbooks on top of that, because at the textbooks in bed with me, but I'm going to need them in the morning. So put that on top of the clothes. And then maybe on top of that there'll be a pillow and stuffed animal. And then some papers that I had put down on the bed earlier because I wanted to file them but I haven't filed them yet. So now it's sort of making like a Dagwood sandwich of different things. And then in the morning, I'll be like, Oh my God, what a mess. Like I just knocked over this giant pile of stuff looking for my sweat pants that I put on the floor, so it'd be easy to put on in the morning. Instead of praying in the drawer. The drawer is six inches higher than the floor pile. Yeah, but I couldn't get into it. Because the floor pile actually, if it goes on the bottom of your pile is blocking the door. So I'll take everything off the floor that I just put on the floor the night before. And then I will put it on my bed and I will split them into categories like this is clothing, I could put this away. Here's some papers that need filing. Here's some glasses that belong downstairs. I should bring them downstairs and my textbook I'm gonna put in the office. And then guess what I don't touch them all day. Don't do it. And then when I like in the afternoon, I'll go into my room because I'm like, I just want to sit on my bed with the cat and do the Sudoku. Oh, fuck, I can't sit on my bed. There's too much stuff on it right? So I'm mad about it, but don't move the piles. And then when I want to go to bed Thomas, sometimes my piles have extended to his side of the bed, right because now I've got on actually a laundry basket of clean laundry that I just need to put away. But I can't put it where my piles are so put on his side. So he'll take that basket of laundry and put it on the floor beside my side of the bed and they'll be like, and then I'll push that over closer to the wall. But now I have to move the air purifier out of the way and the dog bed that's still there from when my kid was gone. And now I'm so tired because it's 10 o'clock at night and I had these piles on my bed that I sorted into categories. And guess what I put them back on the floor. Another language this is called floor juggling. I don't be like but maybe these things like today I don't want to lose my sweatpants. So I'm going to put them on top of the pile of clean laundry that's still in the basket that's on the floor where I did push the air purifier out of the way but now I can't get the door open all the way into my room. So we're squeezing into the room and now I put yesterday's clothes on top of clean and folded laundry but then the next morning I'm like, Oh no, I got my period. I need to get my period underwear but oh, it was in the clean laundry. It's at the bottom of the basket. So I just shove my arm down the bottom of the basket and now all my clean clothes are like and I don't know why it's so As the bigger the piles are, the less and less able I am to actually just put that shit away. Yeah, you know? Yeah. So that like the floor piles are getting bigger and bigger and I'm getting more and more frazzled, and it's like getting harder for me to be like I will. I'm just gonna put this on top of this other thing, so I can grab it first thing in the morning. Right? But then I can't because there's so many things I can't even see. Yeah,