And this was very much inspired by my childhood, I was also raised in a very secular household that was half Jewish, half Catholic, but really nothing because we we only kind of celebrated the fun holidays, if even that. I remember when I was 12 going on 13 I really, really wanted a bat mitzvah and I felt like I deserved one, right? I had the, I had the right to have one because I was Jewish, not really understanding kind of the work that went into having a bat mitzvah and that commitment that it required. I never ended up having a bat mitzvah. As I got older, I sort of thought of not having a bat mitzvah as kind of a thing that was preventing me from being Jewish. And so when people asked me if I was Jewish, I would say, Well, I kind of am, my mom's Jewish, but I never had a bat mitzvah. And then as I got older and started to get more connected to my Jewish roots, I still kept coming back to the bat mitzvah thing, which at some point started to feel kind of silly. Like, you know, I was the one out of all my friends that were Jewish, that all had a bat mitzvah, that was that was keeping Passover, like everyone would come to my house for Passover, I was the one that was getting us to fast on Yom Kippur, I was hosting Rosh Hashanah parties and all these things. And so I was like, Well, why am I so stuck on this thing? The book really came as an exploration of what is a bat mitzvah? What does it mean? What does it mean to be Jewish without having a bat mitzvah? I just really explore and kind of giving myself the permission today to be Jewish the way that I am and not look at my past and use the ceremony that I didn't have when I was 13 as the thing that would have made me Jewish. I'm Jewish today because I am.