I asked him to put so there was a shelf only in the wardrobe and and so I said can you just move that up a little bit? So you know, we put the pole in and the guy was like really tall and so he's put the shelf like four inches from the ceiling so I can't reach it or put anything in there and most of the space and he's done that with the whole room close it too. And then like I asked him to hang my my vacuum my Dyson it's wonky and hang a curtain pole and he did half of it and there was like no context this is this is a can't do this. He was saying that the curtain pole it was curtain poles fault and I was like oh okay, but no, I don't think so. Because then like a couple days later the whole thing just fell down Oh, yeah, so I've got another one another another person coming out in a week to finish the jobs and stuff and yeah, so fix the jobs I actually rehang the pole myself and also put the in my closet put the the shelf where it should be but I did an imperfect job the shelf is wonky so so now that now the poll is still looks longer because the shelf above it is like slightly on an angle so yeah, so I'm going to wait for someone else to do it because it's just too much for my brain. I can do it like I bought a bought some drill bits and shit so but it's just not worth my worth my brainpower and I think it's about it's about 40 to 60 bucks an hour ish, depending on the skill of the handy person or that you're someone's like a professional but it's it's more, but I mean, it's good to know. Anyway, so today's episode it's pretty heavy. And so if let me change that word because the word heavy implies bad thing. are heavy or hurt are bad or are are difficult. So let's let's change that phrasing. It's pretty difficult to hear maybe for some people, for a lot of people, maybe there is talk about eating disorders. There's talk about deaths because this is we're talking about here in this episode, famous people who died, potentially at the hands of fat phobia. So almost everyone in this episode are people who have died, who have died, potentially tragically died from died too young. died because of maybe because of fat phobia. And also talking about fat phobic stuff people say about fat celebrities when they die. Talking about diet pills, we're talking about stomach amputation and squeezing surgery. We're talking about facelift. We're talking about there might be mentioned of calories. Maybe there might be mentioned of weight. I don't think I'll probably take the weight out depending on this, talking about mental health stuff. So if any of that is not feeling good, then skip the episode. And come see me next week. Just a quick update on last week's episode talking about the vacation. And the vacation Shawn. We had lots of people complete the survey. If you haven't completed the survey, please do so. Because then also you'll get to let us know where you want to go. When I say us I mean me and and also it it means that your email will be in the system so we can let you know when it's announced. So far people's top three favorite destinations top for Ireland. You choose Ireland is because Irish mommy, and you want to go see the Irish mommy, Ireland, Italy. And no New Orleans. Yeah, New Orleans and coastal Maine. Also on there was lower down on the list was Dominican Republic. and Mexico. The reason why I bring those up is remember last week, I said you know my ideas about this vacation. It's really important for me that it's accessible. And the fat fat folks who've who've hosted vacations, who are fat, fat influences have tended to pick locations that were the top requested, which were also happened to be deeply inaccessible. So for example, somewhere like Italy, because we have in Canada, and also the US we have ATA is called something else in in, in Canada, American Disabilities Act. And so we've got like this set of standards that we that we know that certain places will adhere to and what they actually mean. Other countries don't necessarily have that. And also say somewhere like Italy, if we're going to be going to Italy and Rome and a lot of places a cobbled streets, a lot of places. It's walking tours, all of the things is walking tours. And so I asked folks, what are your excess? What your What are your accessibility needs a few folks said one person said that they would need a mobility device and someone else a couple of other people said we don't want long walking tours. And so because of an as well, because of what I'm looking to do is more chill I want you know, beach time relaxing go and maybe doing an activity that doesn't involve climbing a mountain and things like that, right? It's really important for me to be accessible so and so I really want to know if we did choose between Mexico and the Dominican Republic and there's a reason why I'm using those two specifically is because both of those locations, the locations that have been previously scattered out have been a body positive seal of approval of fat positive seal of approval. Now I'm working with the tour operators to absolutely nail down what that means but so far no activities where there is a weight limit under 500 pounds. rooms that can be on the first floor with showers that you can walk or wheel into large towels in the in the hotel. I said What does large mean? Let's clarify what large means because you know thing people like that towel is huge. And then we put you know if that person uses and it's like, oh, it's a smaller base, it's more Wasserman. cloth. Yeah, so also, people who are running the tours have also had sensitivity training. So that sounds good, right? That sounds good. Versus if we went to somewhere like Italy, that there would not be any of that stuff, right. And here's another thing, Italy, or anywhere in Europe is a lot more expensive than Dr. or Mexico, or Costa Rica makeup, maybe. So, but I'm wondering, you know, I'm gonna do what you want to do. And so if you're like, Vinny, I don't care about all that fat shit, you know, I'm fat, but I just want to go and, you know, eat some pizza, and whatever, in Italy, you know, go and ride on some Italian decks or whatever, you know, that's what you're interested in. And the whole accessibility thing isn't even, or even the sensitivity training and the fact positivity angle is not of interest to you, then let me know. But if that is important, please, please let me know. And so that means go into the the survey, I'll put it in the show notes. And letting me know that Mexico, or Dominican Republic is where you want to go. If we see that moving up, the it's in the top 10. Right now, if we see that moving up, for where you want to go, then we'll know that that is important for folks. And if you have accessibility requirements or needs, please email me and let me know fattie at first fatty.com It's really important. So I can understand what is needed. And also the thing is, you know, folks could say, Absolutely, we have accessibility needs, but we don't know if those those folks are gonna come on the trip, right? Because this is all very preliminary. So the more information that we have, the better. All right, so, I mean, I'm biased. I'm like, I wanted to make it fat positive. And relaxing on the beach, you know, swimmin sand, Paul, love it. And, you know, the Italy thing is very kind of walking every day, walking, walking, walking, walking, some more walking, walking, walking, eating a pizza, does Morcombe so it's a totally different type of vibe. And a lot of people you know, like that. And I'm not saying that that's a bad thing. Like, I probably want to do that too. But it's not aligning with my vision. So let me know you might be like, Fuck your vision Vinny. We want Italian we don't Italy we want somewhere else as well.