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Ep1 - Reunited and it Feels so Good

Andy Lara38min

Unknown Speaker

00:00

Every time you call on me, I drop what I do.

Unknown Speaker

00:04

you are my best friend and we got some shit to shoot.

Speaker 1

00:14

Hey, everybody, before the show starts, I just wanted to send you guys the biggest virtual hug ever. I can't thank you enough for all the support all the subscriptions, and the reviews. The five stars. I mean, you guys are incredible. And I've missed you all so much. I hope you enjoy the show. You know, I'm a little rusty behind the mic, but we're gonna figure this out. We're gonna figure it out together.

Unknown Speaker

00:39

Because this is as much of your podcast as it is mine. So if you're commuting to work, or watching the kids cleaning the house, whatever it is, I see you hang in there. I know it's Monday from maybe it's Tuesday or Wednesday when you listen to this, but you're gonna be good. We're gonna get through the week together. I love you guys. Thank you for the support and enjoy the show.

Unknown Speaker

01:04

You are my best friend and we've

Unknown Speaker

01:06

got some shit to shoot.

Unknown Speaker

01:11

I mean, the mouth can do a lot of things. Oh my gosh, here we go. Okay.

Speaker 1

01:17

Hello, everybody, and welcome to humble and hungry. I am your friend Natalie pouget. You already know who's here. You know from my Instagram. You know, she's known for her breakup advice and for curling your eyelashes with a spoon. But you know, she's a radio personality. She's a singer, a songwriter, an activist for the dreamers. But more importantly, she's the matriarch and pillar of our family. Please welcome my mom. Yay. Hello, my dear and beautiful daughter.

Speaker 2

01:48

Hey, where are you? I am actually very, very happy and honored to be here with you on the first episode of the podcast, so I just want to wish you the very best my daughter because you deserve it. And of course, thank you to all the people that appreciate all my dumb things.

Speaker 1

02:09

People love you on on Instagram, they love you. They're gonna get to love you even more and get to know you. And, you know, look, we were going to sort of keep our episode episodes nice and short and tight. But she's going to be on a lot. So you're going to get to know her over the next few weeks and months, hopefully, because in all transparency, we already had episode one recorded. But we had a little hiccups in the IT departments. Oh, I thought who better than my mom. Well, thank you so much. We're gonna Cheers. We're drinking a little Piper Heitzig the one that really blended, which we'll talk all about in the coming weeks, but sallu salary, cheers to, um, health and wealth, success and success. And you know, just being there for one another friendship. Yes, exactly.

Unknown Speaker

03:01

family. I love to tell the thing. I love yous. And cheers to you guys at home. For listening for my new children. I want you to have that because we're all your people, your audience, your followers.

Speaker 1

03:17

A lot of them are your age to really yeah, they get older. Like a followers friends. Well, that's nice. I know. They all like I have grandkids but I love listening to you. And I love sharing like advice to my grandkids or my kids about you. better place for dating, so we're gonna have to pimp you out soon. But that's coming. That's coming. So I want for everybody sort of get to know you. So give me like the top three things that people don't know about you.

Speaker 2

03:53

Well, depending on what people because there's certain things that my children know that are like everyone that doesn't know you. People that don't know me. Well, that's a good question, Natalie. My actual weight, but

Speaker 1

04:10

no one knows that about me. Can I tell you something before I forget? They came a couple days ago to get our blood drawn. Okay. For Life Insurance. They ask you what, what? No, they weigh you. But that's that's besides the point. I was like, have you gained more than 10 pounds in the past six months? I go. Yeah. And so anyways, they they measure you guess how tall I am? You're five? I'm 5151 I grew. Oh, you did? I've been five even forever. Oh, I wonder how that happened. I don't know maybe having a kid like make made me. Well, I know that will be really tall right by now. That's true. I'm told Yeah, I was just gonna say I'm like, I grew like widthwise and then put apparently height wise I grew. Okay, isn't that exciting? Anyways, so I wanted to share that with you before I forgot.

Speaker 2

05:09

So one was my weight. Okay, number two. Number two. It's, um, that I didn't actually go to college, or even finish. I don't know, some kind of school say it.

Unknown Speaker

05:25

I didn't finish high school. Okay. When When was the last or the last grade that you finished? I guess it was. What's what comes after high school? Junior High School? Yeah, because it was an eighth grade.

Speaker 2

05:40

ninth grade. It was ninth grade. Yeah. And what was that? What was that? Oh, no, no, that was 10th grade, you finished 10th grade and I finished eighth grade. And then you didn't end the night. And then I did night school in Mexico City. Like, because you were living in Mexico. I was already working at the age of 15 and a half. 16 years old. I was already working to support my family. So I had to go at night to go to finish. Call I mean, Junior High School.

Speaker 1

06:06

Right? Because you were one of four kids. Right? And we're gonna get into all this. And remember, yes, we got to keep the episodes kind of short. But we could talk about your childhood. Yeah. Honestly, for days. Yes. My third one. Oh, my gosh, my mom has some of the most insane stories which you guys have to hear everything. But we want to get to them. Oh, good. So okay, so you didn't finish? You basically finished? Junior High junior high school. first couple years of high school? I mean, your first couple years? And then

Speaker 2

06:38

yeah, that was it. So my weight, my vocation? And then what will be the third one? The third one? That's a good one. It has to do with my sexuality. Oh, god, what? I mean, I'm not gonna say that. We're gonna be here for you. Let them keep waiting. And they'll tell you more about it. Oh, God. All right. Well, that's,

Speaker 1

07:03

that's good enough. So I kind of wanted to give everybody a recap on what happened sort of like the last month and just sort of get everybody up to speed. Yes. And then next week, we'll really sort of all dive in to sort of the past a year and a half with you guys of of what happened since we sort of stopped talking. So Hawaii basically was going to be a trip with just Riley and I, and because he's gonna open up a hotel there, or he just actually opened up the hotel. So we were gonna plan to be there for a month and everything was was basically going great. Until like, the flight after the flight. I mean, like the whole trip was like a disaster. I don't think so. It's funny you and Riley thought, like it wasn't that bad. But I feel like it was cursed.

Speaker 2

07:57

I mean, yeah, well, that that's that's huge. That word actually pretty. Pretty was pretty strong, I would say. But no, I think that he made us all learn about each other. A lot. Yes. I mean, now I know that I can get a job anytime you go on a trip.

Speaker 3

08:15

Now this time I'm gonna get paid. Because I served I was the last one to get sick. So I served as the delivery women the

Speaker 1

08:24

story yet okay. Okay, so I'm just gonna basically give you the highlights of the trip. Yeah. So we ended up finding out the night before the flight that we were able to fly private, which was crazy, because we don't

Speaker 2

08:40

ever do that. And I missed that one. I almost went with you on the

Speaker 1

08:44

plane. So it was because of Riley's boss, right. And it was one of his friends and and thankfully, and he's such a he's such a great guy. But he was like, Hey, why don't you guys fly private with one of my friends and it just worked out. So we get there and not even two days into it. I locked Piper in the car. Okay, that was crazy. That was a good goal. Well, I'm

Speaker 2

09:09

sorry. I haven't. I mean the shipping do it's good. You got to do that. It looks good.

Speaker 1

09:15

So I love Piper in the car about two days in and I'm having full blown panic attack. She was in the car for like 15 minutes. Thankfully, the car was on and the air conditioning was on. But like, it was such a disaster. I my phone was in the car, my purse was in the car. I just didn't know what to do. And then finally we were like telling her to press buttons. And, and she did and we finally got my hand in there and I was able to unlock the car and I got her out. But that's sort of how the trip started.

Speaker 2

09:46

Now when you hit that, I mean, I'm telling you I Oh, I remember one that one time it happened to me with Jackie, my other daughter. And instead of pulling pulling the other window down. I put the window up with her when she was you know putting her head outside the window. Yeah. And he went up. So you can imagine. That's how scary when you told me that story. I think you were like, I almost took my daughter. So that it was like, It's horrible. Yeah. When you said I put my hand and then the baby was going up and down.

Speaker 1

10:15

Yeah. Well, she was in the car. She was fine. I put my hand and that's what I'm saying. Yeah, but I mean, you know, I fully had control of like, a window. It filled the whole thing was scary. I know. And I have to say when I posted that, on Instagram, so many people had, like, the craziest car stories with their kids. Yeah, yeah. I feel like Yeah, yeah, I feel like everyone has a moment Yes, in the car. But thankfully, it was nothing too serious. And then immediately after I put it down for a nap, and I realized that I lost my engagement ring, as I am now, frantically running through the entire hotel, trying to find this damn ring. And then the whole time it was sitting underneath the piles of other jewelry that I had, you know, I just never take my ring off. And I probably should, but I just never do anyways, I found it. And it was just like craziness. And it was one of the worst days. I'm not gonna get married. Oh, for sure. That's my ring. I'm not gonna get married. I was like, this is a bad omen. This means I shouldn't get married. Riley, we need to break up. This This is it. And then. Yeah, and then I thought, Oh, well, maybe it's insurance. Maybe I can upgrade my rig. Anyways, none of that happened. So my mom got there a couple days into it. Riley's mom was there already with a friend. And all of my family was sort of going to be trickling in towards the end of our trip. And there was gonna be like, 24 of us at one point. So it was like, Oh, it was a lot a lot. Yeah. So I lose. So I lock her in the car, I lose my ring. So I thought and then sort of every day something would happen. And I was like, Oh my god, what is going on with this trans people that

Speaker 2

12:07

are gonna organize in how many people would be arriving at the airport? Who's going to go pick him up? And then of course, you gave me a beautiful welcome. This lace.

Speaker 3

12:18

I got you late Honey. Yeah, I got the first one in a long time. Don't get used to it. And then of course, champagne. Yes. And it was just a wonderful to see you there is. So you know, kay was so nice.

Speaker 1

12:37

Okay, so So you guys are there. And Riley sister gets there. So it's Riley, her husband? and Riley, her husband? Riley's sister, her husband and the two kids. Yes. And the next day, Riley had this whole like pineapple tasting setup. That was so nice. And he brought us so he brought me about you. And our aunt, my aunt that was there as well. So that's four and then left Piper with Riley sister. Right? So it's about two o'clock and I and I'm like, I wonder how she's doing. So I text her sister. And she's like, ah, she actually threw up. So we're just hanging out on the sand because they were at the beach. But I'm keeping an eye on her. And I'm thinking, Okay, I'm gonna just we got to go like, let's wrap this up.

Speaker 2

13:23

But by this time, we have already been eating pineapple. In this tasting all this beautiful, the frame kind of alcohol that they make from pineapple. So we were like in our own little world.

Speaker 1

13:34

Yeah, we were having such a good time in the sister here. Which is so funny because you guys were like taking all your shots and I wasn't gonna wait. And I weirdly was like, you know, I'm not going to I don't think I'm going to drink I just

Speaker 2

13:47

the only place that they make a walk. I'm in the engine from bendable. She said the mean.

Speaker 1

13:54

No, it was no, it was amazing. I was like I just for some reason. I didn't want to drink that time. And thankfully I didn't because of what was about to happen.

Speaker 2

14:01

Riley is listening to this. I wanted to state say thank you. Because I know.

Speaker 1

14:07

So Alright, so we basically head back. And now we're like hauling ass back because now I'm worried I've never seen her throw up before. And so I knew something was wrong. And we get to the hotel, and she's really lethargic. And and apparently she had been throwing up now consistently. So. So now I have her with me. And we're walking up to the room, and she continues to throw up and now I'm like panicked a little bit. I'm like, okay, what's wrong? So I'm thinking, Okay, maybe she was just dehydrated, didn't have enough water, too much sun. That's where my brain was going with the whole thing. So we get to the room. And Riley goes and gets Pedialyte and crackers and just tries to get things to sort of, you know, bring her back to life a little bit. So I'm in the room with her and She doesn't have a fever or she doesn't have diarrhea. She doesn't have anything else. She's just vomiting and just really, really lethargic. And we're trying to get her to like, not fall asleep, because I don't know for some reason, I don't know where I heard it, but it was like, don't let them fall asleep if they're too dehydrated, Emily that. So then I call my mom, my mom calls me and I didn't answer because I'm like, in the midst of her throwing up or whatever, my mom just shows up to my room with my aunt, and Riley still gone. And so they see her. They're worried. I was texting with my sister like, hey, what should I give her? What should I do? And so Riley gets back to the room. And she throws up one last time. And oh, sorry. I gave her the Pedialyte and she threw it all up. And that was our sort of immediate like, okay, we need to just take her to the hospital.

Speaker 2

15:49

No. cold call that hotel. It's got to be someone that can come and see her. Yes. And there was no time to waste. Right when I saw her eyes like actually running around in and she almost fainted. Yeah. I mean, she was so scary. And I have four kids. I've never seen something like this. Bad. Yeah. happening to any of my children. When they were throwing up. She was actually bad.

Speaker 1

16:12

Yeah, she was really bad. Yeah. So I so I call the front desk. And I'm like, hey, do you guys have any sort of doctors on site? You know, I just, my daughter's not doing well. And I didn't want to alarm them because of COVID. Right. It's such a it's such a terrible time for your kids to get sick or anyone to get his second drink. And I learned that you exactly know. Exactly. So she was like, unfortunately we don't but there's an urgent care down the street. Okay. So I we get, like, frantically just grabbing things and putting in the diaper bag. And we Riley and I take her with us and we drive down the street to the urgent care, which is right in front of a bar. It's so weird. She yet so so I'm carrying her holding her. She's throwing up on me as we're walking to the urgent care and the urgent care is closed. And I'm like, Oh my god, and it says like due to COVID blah, blah, blah.

Speaker 2

17:02

Maybe they have a bar that way. Yeah. When parents have to stay tight. Yeah, that's right. You know, get drunk. Well, yeah, things happen, you

Speaker 1

17:09

know? So, Riley's now googling the next search and care. Okay, it's 15 minutes away. So we get back in the car. I'm very, like very much panicking at this point. And so we're driving to that we're on hold because I'm like, call and make sure that someone's even there because I don't want to drive all the way over there. If no one's there, and they're just gonna turn us around, you know, turn us away. So now we're driving. And I'm holding her because I have to at this point, because she's just so bad. I couldn't put on the car seat. So I'm, I'm holding her. I haven't seen one, but still. And she's vomiting on me still violently. And we get to the urgent care and we walk in and they're like, and they're like, Oh, you guys don't want our hold? Like, yes. And she's like, um, yeah, well, you just wait here for a second. I'm like, Oh my god, I'm like, just help someone just see my kid. And so she 10 minutes in, and she's like, you know, if she has some sort of, you know, virus or this or that or but you're gonna have to go to the hospital anyways. So she sent this to the hospital like, Well, where's the hospice? She's like, oh, there's one on the island, right? Oh, kill me. So I was like, okay, where is it? It's 25 minutes away. I'm like, bucket. Let's go. Let's just get in the car. And let's go. So we get to the hospital, Riley's hauling ass, and we pull up and there is a tent outside of the hospital. Because of COVID The hospital is literally like, overflowing, right? So we get her checked in there, you know, asking me all these questions and making sure she you know, positive doesn't have COVID does that. But this time ratio is outside the hospital only let one person in to the to the hospital. And of course, yesterday, he was like, you know, I can take her and I'm like, Hell no, she came out of my body, honey. So he's, you know, in the parking lot waiting at this point, his phone's about to die. I luckily brought the charger because my phone was about to die. And so now I'm like trying to find a plug to plug it in that way I can at least to let him know what's happening. So they finally get us into the tent. They couldn't get us into their PDF that was this already. So let's, I mean, they No, no, no, no, no. So we found out you started looking up a to it's about five o'clock, and we take her to the hospital. And then we get her checked in. And now we're sitting in like this little tent, right? Nothing around us. There's like, you know, it's a windy there. So the whole tents shaking and you're on your own and because of threadless and by myself, yep. And they were about to switch shifts. So I can hear the nurse sort of telling everybody what's, what's going on with each patient and all of that. So it takes them about two hours to get an IV and at this I mean she's a baby. She has this Zero attention span. So even she'll have like burst of of energy. And so I'm like trying to distract her with things. And then she'll go back to like, you know, falling asleep. And I'm just like, What is going on? So they finally get in there. They start with an IV, while they're picking her little hand, right? They can't find her vein. So it takes them four tries to get an IV in her case,

Speaker 2

20:27

we'll stop right there. Because that's when I started, when, of course, I was texting with the right Riley. And he texted me. This is the worst thing that I have experienced listening to my daughter cry, and I can do anything. I'm already outside. Yeah, he's listening.

Speaker 1

20:43

Right? Because he was in the car. And he said he could hear her scream. He is on the car. Yes. So he walks out of the car. And he so he's basically I didn't know, I didn't know this. But he was standing outside of the tent, right where we were laying, right. And so he was listening to the entire thing. He said, in a way, there's no this this is the hospital. So so he was listening, basically, to the whole thing. And I am freaking out in here. And I'm like, this is the last time you're going to pick her her body because someone has to get it right. I this is I couldn't handle it. Right. And so I bless them. I mean, they were trying their hardest, but you could tell they were manic. She's a year and a half year old. So there was four people in there trying to hold her down because she is screaming, trying to kick and move. And, you know, I'm trying to talk to her in her ear and calm her down. So there was a couple nurses that were not so nice. And then there were the finally the last one, he was like an angel. He came, he was like, okay, it's gonna be fine. Do this do that. He had a little light, he did his thing. Proctor fine. She, she had the IV in her in like, beautiful. Two seconds. So finally, the IV starts to kick in. And now she has fluids in her. So now she's a little bit more calm, she fell asleep. She fell asleep a little bit, but she was sort of like up and you know, up and back to sleep for a while. So now it's like 1030 at night, almost 11. And finally, the pediatrician comes in. And they're asking all these questions, how is she? What's going on? And all these hours? Riley still, he's still on the he still? So we're still waiting to either find out? Are we staying? Or are we going home? So they finally tell us look, we did we ran all these, you know, labs, they had to take, you know, a bunch of like blood tests and everything. So they ran labs, they did everything and her loved those were really off her liver, her kidneys, everything was still off. She wasn't diabetic, that was one of their worries. But they just wanted to monitor her. And they were scared that if they sent her home and she continued to throw up and become dehydrated, then it could be really bad for her. So they said we want to keep you overnight. And but we don't know if we're gonna find a bed for you. So we're still trying to find a bed for you. So at that point, I just text Riley and I'm like, Look, they want to keep her you might as well go home, there's no reason for you to stay and sleep in the car. And both of us have a bad night's sleep. So just go home rest come back early in the morning. And you know, and that way.

Speaker 2

23:18

And that's what I remember texting Riley and said, Riley, why don't you just come come to the hotel limit come in and then just wait there if we have to pick her up bring or whatever I need to do. And he said, I'm not moving. I am not moving. Now you can imagine have to all the mothers that are listening to all the grammars that are listening. And now they know that we know when you're a grandma

Speaker 3

23:40

now you're not just suffering for for your daughter. Now you're suffering now for the grandkids. So it's double, you know,

Speaker 2

23:47

the pain and anxiety. Right? So but you can't physically be there because we want to be there and like yes, that's just part of what a Grom is in. So my cousin kept saying, relax, relax. It's not your baby. It's Natalie's in Riley's. They need to learn, they need to grow together. These are the experiences that they need to go through in order for them to continue to you know, build a relationship together and know what kids are about.

Speaker 1

24:14

Right? Exactly. And it was a really this is the first time our babies ever been sick sick like that. And so I do think that it it bonded us in a way right

Speaker 2

24:23

physics to the picture of you laying down with her when she was sleeping and your eyes. You were like, I was like a zombie. I was so zombie. You know your eyes were like, I could see you thinking or overthinking here, or the pain that you

Speaker 1

24:38

were going through. It was a lot with a lot. It was it was honestly one of my biggest fears traveling for so long. Especially with with an infant. It's like every like your worst nightmare is coming true, right? It's just like not knowing what's wrong with her. Not being home, not having moved so far away. The Like the flight back isn't just like an hour flight. So like all these things like, Is it COVID? Is it something like it jet my brain was just going crazy.

Speaker 2

25:09

I really appreciate a Riley when he kept calm. Yes. And that's why in everything a lot of situations today we're talking about Piper rose. Yes.

Speaker 3

25:18

In other situations where I've seen him is like, really you can put up with all these family allowed where he's crazy fast,

Speaker 1

25:25

and he's awesome. Yeah, he is the best. I love you. Riley. Yeah, we love you. So, so we basically I tell him to go home and I have to like, I have to reel up sorry, mate. That's my that's my Apple Watch. My daughter's awake. Oh, no. I've been doing this while she's been sleeping granddaughter. So I'm going to try to hurry up with the story. But she's just she's just moving around now. So um, so now I basically had to like tell him go home. Like, right, get some rest, we will be fine, right? If anything happens, you just head back and whatever. So he went home. And they finally it's so now we're sleeping in the tent. And it's like this little caught, right. So I'm just like, laying next to her like to me what

Unknown Speaker

26:15

he told me he was sleeping in the car all the time.

Speaker 1

26:18

No, no, no, no. No, that would know after 11 o'clock at night, he went back. I thought he stayed the whole night. No, no, no, really. You had any thought she had? No, he had. He had taken naps, like, eight o'clock. He was like sleeping. And I could just go home. This is don't get into like Okay, so, um, so then it's, it's like 130 Yeah, it's 130 in the morning, and they finally are going to close the tent down. And so they move us to the hospital. And they're like, Look, we're gonna try to find a bed for you. There's people like sleeping in the hallways, and the pediatrics. War. Why was it so full? Because of COVID? I think because of Yeah, I think so. Or a little bit of I don't know the I don't want to like really? No, it was full island was full.

Speaker 2

27:11

Know what I'm saying? That. I mean, before we arrived there, they test every single visitor, right? I mean, we have to prove our you know that.

Speaker 1

27:19

People still get it out there. I mean, yeah, it's lower chances of getting it but or maybe they're just small. Oh, there's your pizza. Better than

Speaker 3

27:36

it could potentially be another daughter visiting us.

Speaker 2

27:40

And oh, no, it is the food. Natalie said that she was on a diet and guess what? She just received her pizza. Is it what did you order? My pineapples, pineapple or kawaii? Yeah, no. That's crazy that it happened right now. Yeah. Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what we're gonna have to do because she's awake.

Speaker 1

28:08

Let's just let her let her play in there for a little bit. Okay, so the hospital is so full and they're like, we're going to try to find a bed for you. Somewhere the pediatrics floor is full. But we're I think we're going to be able to get you into it's in like the emergency room area with a do like surgeries. So they found us a bed and it's so loud in hospital because they couldn't give us like in a private room or anything. So it's like you hear b g machines and people with crying and some thinking oh my god, how is she going to sleep through the night is going to be a disaster. So luckily, I don't know. I just figured it out. I played videos and games and whatever and and just to keep her occupied. But she was sleeping in Africa was so uncomfortable. or half my ass was like hanging out. I mean, the bed I was like the

Speaker 2

29:07

the way that you left the hotel running to the hospital was like you didn't even think about gonna wear this I'm gonna show you exactly little

Speaker 1

29:16

but then I was like in No, no, I'm saying like, not my ass hanging out on my like my shorts with my abs was taking off like the bed. Oh, like it was? No. So anyway, so we're so we're laying there. Finally. And by the way, they're coming in like probably every hour to check her levels. She had like very, like erratic heart rates. And they wanted to make sure that her sugar levels were still okay, because the sugar levels were really low, right? Okay. So they're coming in constantly there pricking her little foot constantly. So she's just so uncomfortable. She has the IV in her hand. She's crying. Constantly, right? Just like get this thing off of me. Poor girl. So Finally, long story short, sorry. But the pediatrician comes in about like 5am. And she's checking her out. And she's asking me these questions about, you know, if anyone else was has been sick or what's going on, and they are checking her heart, she's checking her heart. And she's like, no one ever told you that she has a heart murmur. And I was like, No, I never never heard this in my life. And I'm thinking, Oh, my God, please, God, don't do this to me right now. Not right now. Like, this is the last thing I'm like, so delirious, you know, finally, she's like, hasn't thrown up in a few hours. I'm just thinking, Oh, my God, please don't let this be bigger, a bigger deal than what it is. And she's like, I would have checked out she's like, it's very common in especially, you know, in kids, and they can grow out of it and all these things, but I would definitely have it checked out. Because I think that that was another thing. You know, her heart rate was just so erratic. So, I mean, imagine I have to text Riley that what so finally, they let us go about 630 in the morning, and they're like, you guys go home. And as she was having a little bit of crackers and water, she was able to keep it down. And then they just let us know, you know, if she has a fever or diarrhea or anything moving forward, they just sort of let us know what to do moving forward. Turns out so and they just thought it was dehydration, sun exposure, sun poisoning, possibly we would they really didn't know we owe the value. I mean, we're all right. Like, what was it? What is it right? And they really didn't know they thought it could have been just something she a theory of? What is it? They couldn't pinpoint it? So we The next day, I get a text message from the sister saying, I've been up all night. She had vomiting, right? And I'm like, Oh, shit, it's probably a bug. And as I'm saying this Riley's like, I don't really feel good. So I will just leave it up to your guys's imagination, but just so you know. There was 24 people that morning the day that we left the hospital everyone was flying in a ruin everyone to the bathroom to the bathroom and they ever went through 20 of us yeah. 20 only for survived this and, and yeah, there were some people that there were some people that that didn't get okay. So for people, but about four people didn't get it from the whole group. It went through everyone every day. It was like someone was going down and we were just constantly texting, like, Who's next? And they're like, oh,

Speaker 3

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the O'Briens are out today. Oh, the breakfast Who's coming? Okay. What should I go Pedialyte in rooms? Also?

Speaker 1

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Yeah, towels. Okay, every room needed something. The housekeeping off, bless the hotel. It was it was honestly a actual shit show. Like, I looked around from room to room in every single building. I mean, Oh, my gosh, horrible. It was crazy. So thankfully, once we found out that it was a bug, we felt better because it was like, okay, it was just a stomach bug. And she unfortunately so little that she couldn't just keep up with all of you know, the liquids and everything. But so anyway, so so that all of that happened. And then Luckily, we had some really good moments throughout the trip, Riley swam with the whales. And we all went on a catamaran we had such fun nights together, right? So fast forward everything cuz we're running a little bit out of time, but we get back just to finish the Piper's health story. So right, we get back and I take her immediately to the hospital, the the her doctor's office. And he I'm telling him what happened in Hawaii. And he proceeds to tell me that he's like, huh, yeah, he mentioned it. She has had a murmur. And I wanted to kill him. Yeah. And it's, it's weird, because I love him. Because he's so lacs. And he makes me feel so comfortable. And he doesn't. There's some there's some, you know, doctors out there that are more like sort of hypersensitive to things and will tell you Oh, like, you know, well, you should worry about this. You should worry about that. Yeah, he just made me feel so comfortable throughout this entire time. And then he does this and I'm like, No, how did you not tell me this? Maybe

Speaker 2

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doctor feel like, why would I worry her when maybe next week? She's gonna be fine. Well,

Speaker 1

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he was saying it's benign. It's common. I didn't think I didn't write it was an issue. I mean, so I understand that he has to disclose to the right, exactly. So she's like, should I get into the cardiologist? And I said, Yes, let's do that. So now I'm on a waitlist, and she's going to get in and she's going to be seen in June. It's I know she's probably going to be okay. I know it's a common thing. We pay just kids girl. Yeah, they grow out of it. I just for me want to be able to sleep at night? No, my my girls, okay, absolutely. And that in the long run, God forbid, it turns into something that I didn't keep an eye on and would not forgive yourself. Exactly. So that's where we're at. I will keep you guys posted. Of course, thank you for all the messages. I really, really appreciate it. We ran out of time today, but we are going to I hope you can stay for a little bit longer. And we can drink the champagne. And we can continue the conversation. I

Speaker 2

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just want to say something really quick, Natalie, I think your show here today, it's been very beneficial because summer is coming. A lot of people are definitely are going to start traveling. And it's I mean, everything that you said, and you mentioned all the tips about you know, keep it keep it calm and whatever you went through. I hope that some people will really learn from this experience. Yeah, ugly experience. Yeah,

Speaker 1

35:57

I know. And it's, it's almost just like, make sure you do your due diligence, like know, the closest hospitals, right? Especially during COVID times.

Speaker 2

36:04

Just you don't assume, don't assume Oh, it was probably the water. Maybe she drank water in the pool. Or maybe she ate something. Maybe the ribs? Maybe that's the restaurant. Yeah, you know,

Speaker 1

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you just don't ever you just never know exactly right now, you know, the world's opening up again, just be hypersensitive by insurance to go out of

Speaker 2

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the country or out of to another state, whatever it is. Absolutely. I have good insurance. Yes. If anything happens, make sure that you get to a safe place, doctor.

Speaker 1

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Yes, absolutely. All right, you guys, thank you so much. And we're gonna be talking about the giveaway. Next, make sure to subscribe, rate review, Mom, don't go anywhere. I'm keeping you here. And I will see you guys next week.

Speaker 1

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Okay, everybody, it's time for our weekly humble giveaway. Here is how to enter to win. All you have to do is go to my last Instagram post, the post that relates to this week's episode, and write a comment about why you want to win. Or don't just just write anything. And I'm going to raffle it every week and announce it on next week's podcast. It's going to be humble giveaways, guys, just to start because I'm doing this just from from my little house here. So whether it's $50 target, you know, gift cards to actual products, I don't know, we're gonna sort of do this together, and hopefully grow this together. So that's how you enter to win. If you guys want to actually be part of the giveaway, if you have a business or a service or product. Send me a message on Instagram, like DM me, or you can go to my website at Natalie prosze.com and contact me there any which way just send me a message. Let me know what your business is about what you want to give away. I'm happy to help. I feel like we all need to help each other. And it's just going to better our community. So I cannot wait. I will announce the first giveaway next week. So make sure to tune in to that. Thank you. If you're still listening, I love you. I think you I appreciate you. You're the real rider die. And always remember you guys stay humble and stay hungry.

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