I read 12 books about this. Did you know? Yeah, so I was thinking of you when I bought the fabric for the shirt that I made, because I washed it. Yeah, that that I are knit, which I don't do. I know. And then I cut it. And then I, every time I did a seam that ironed the seam open and then finished the seam. So as I was, I know, you're rolling your eyes at me, ever. And I like stare at something for 20 minutes before I like commit to actually running a scene because I don't like the little tiny holes that are left once you do this to tripping. Yeah. Yeah, so we each have a string. And that's fine. And when you know, when neurodivergent person you know, one neurodivergent person, which I think is another lesson that you get from re listening to our episodes is that my experience is completely different from yours, except when it Yeah, exactly the same, it doesn't mean that one of us is more neurodivergent than the other or better. neurodivergent. That's right or better neurodivergent or that one of us is higher or lower functioning than the other. It is a gift that we are able to see the specificities of our own instantiations or embodiments of the disorder, right? Yeah, without sort of questioning like, well, I don't really think that you're ADHD because somebody with ADHD, like would never read this is a different kind of, kind of gatekeeping. Right? You know, the way the way sometimes you see in in political movements is kind of like purity culture, right? Like, do you have all exactly the right beliefs? Right? Is your gender presentation exactly the right kind of gender presentation? Like are your politics exactly aligned with like, the whatever, right, so this kind of rigidity that our people tend to really, really resent is easy to fall into, when we're comparing our disorder to others either to think like, I am not ADHD enough, or this person is like, way, way lower functioning than me because of this, right. So that's, I think, something that, that I get out of relisting to our episodes, it's like just how much variation there is, in our experiences, and then finding the commonalities through that is more empowering. I think, because the disorder, like the flip side of that is that it means that the disorder doesn't define you. Right, it means that because you have ADHD, it is not. It does not then in a deterministic way, indicate what your relationship to build paying or stitch ripping is, right? It just doesn't, it means that in your brain, certain neurotransmitters are not operating exactly the way you want, the architecture of your brain might be a little bit different. You may have problems with some executive function and emotional regulation. But our areas of hyper focus being that our levels of functioning in different areas are completely different, right? Because if you're very, very interested in producing perfect seems, then you're gonna wash and iron and like I learned how to do a Hong Kong finishing stuff, right? Like, oh, my God, I was interested in cleaning seems like, alright, but that's right.