Yeah. I mean, this is so hard to so I'm just going through this thing right now where I'm like, sending all this money back because I can't handle the thing that I'm supposed to do with this award I got before the pandemic, which was never a reasonable thing to ask me to do anyways, and the profound amount of shame that I feel right to to admit to myself, like, Oh, this is an amazing opportunity. Some people would really thrive. I had $65,000 to run a conference. They're like, I would do this and this and so about like, No, I can't. Do you want me to keynote that conference? Sure, right? Give me two weeks, like, and I'll have something for you. But like, plan it, step wise with tasks every day for 20 minutes from now until the end of June. No, I can't. It's not that I won't. It's not that I think I'm better than it is that every time I do, I have a panic attack and I screw something up right every time, and it just, I can't do it. And I hate that about myself. I hate that about myself. So when people will say, but like, Oh, but I believe in you. You're so smart, like, you can totally do that. I just hate myself more. So when somebody writes an article that they're like, these ADHD people are over diagnosed and there's nothing wrong with them that a good kick in the pants and some discipline wouldn't fix. I'm like, Yep, I hate myself too. Get in line behind me, right? So if you're trying to shame people who are actually disabled, right? Nothing works better than these articles, because those are the voices that we've had in our heads the whole time. And anybody who's trying to cheat the system to be like, I'm gonna get some Adderall, I'm gonna pull some all nighters. That's gonna be a real competitive advantage for me, or like, I'm gonna get extra time on tests because of this. They don't give a shit if you're ableist in your article, in the Chronicle of Higher Education. Patient, because they are actually not playing in good faith anyways, right? So you're not going to reach the cheaters. All you're going to do with an article like this is reconfirm for everybody who has ADHD, because that's the main disorder that really gets talked about here, right? You're just going to reconvince everybody who has ADHD that they do not deserve to be where they are that their disability is not a real disability, that they are cheaters, taking away from other people, and they're getting unfair advantages that they ought to be able to handle on their own, which is something we already believe. Yep, so well done, sir. Right? I think people just don't understand how self aware people with ADHD are about all the things that they're not good at, right? I saw this, this reel on Instagram the other day from this couple where he's like, he says to her, did you text Catherine back? And she said, Oh yeah, no. He's like, do you remember to text Catherine? She's like, Yeah. He's like, so you did it? And she's like, No, but I remembered it. I remember it every 20 minutes all day for the last two days, and I haven't written her back yet, and all I know is I'm a garbage friend, yeah, yeah, right, like, and that's it. But this is another one where, like, a guy, he has two cups labeled, one is labeled work, and one is labeled relaxing, and both cups are empty, and then he takes a pitcher full of water and then pours it in between the two cups, yeah, right? Because, like, I'm not working, I'm not relaxing, I'm just anxious about all the things I think I should be doing and I'm not doing. So probably our listeners to find themselves in similar places where people don't understand what their disability is. People are like, but you're so successful, or you're so smart, or you're trying to get out of this, you're trying to get an advantage, and we'll be like, Yep, all of that is true, yeah. And somehow I still suck. Yeah. All of it, right? And then all the things, right, yeah, and all the things that you're good at don't matter, because those are too easy. And obviously the things that people value are the things that you find impossible to do, right? So it gets just, it feels this article just feels so ablest to me, because the only people it's really going to land with are the bigots who already believe this, yeah, and with everybody who has ADHD reads it and it's like, Yes, I'm a garbage person. So that's all that this article has done. Very bravely, reconfirmed the prejudices of people who have them, and given a kick in the self esteem to people who are just really struggling to understand that their disability is not their fault. Yeah,