Michaela, welcome to the sovereign heart podcast, where we get to talk about what it takes to live love and build relationships from the unlimited potential of your heart. My name is Michaela rose Soleil. I'm the polyamorous dating and relationship coach, artist, lover, communication, nerd, total water bender and heart centered weirdo, and I'm so honored to be alive at the same time as you how great is that the world is a changing place, and so are the ways we love and support one another, within and beyond the paradigms of monogamy, polyamory, non violent communication, polarity, tantra, attachment, twin flames, dating, kink and more, there is one thread that weaves us all trust, a nutrient that is only created from a willingness to go first, the discernment to call a red flag red crystal clear communication and a little bit of faith in the unknown. I am so excited to be on this journey with you. Let's dive in. Hello, beautiful, sovereign hearted beings. Welcome to another episode of the sovereign heart podcast. My name is Michaela rose Soleil. I am your sovereign paradigm shifting relationship and dating coach, thank you so much for joining me today. Thank you for listening. I'm so grateful to have you here along this journey with me today. I really want to talk about visioning, visioning, visioning, new paradigm, sovereign relationships. There's so much going on in the world right now, but if you pay attention to the cycles and the themes, and if you're an astrology nerd or numerology or just like to kind of pay attention to how all of these trends and cycles in our lives and in the world come and go 2025 from a lot of different perspectives, a lot of different transitions. Is a huge year for transformation, for really this deep, deep, deep recognition and the deep claiming and the deep stepping into this new paradigm where love is guiding the way, this new paradigm of all the things that we have known are possible or maybe tasted in small amounts through different experiences, spiritual experiences, growth, healing, transformation, all this kind of stuff, we get glimpses into it in 2025 like I said, for many traditions, is this year where all of that not only is a glimpse, but a portal is opening up. A portal is opening up for new possibilities, and it is calling us all in to what we want to step into. So it is crucial right now to be mindful of your thoughts, of what you're what you're imagining, what you're thinking about, of how you're talking to yourself, the way that you're imagining, what's possible. And so I really love if you've listened to me before, if you've worked with me at all. I love the power of imagination in some cultures. There is no difference. There's no word for imagination, because the concept of imagination being different than reality does not exist. Because if you can see it, if you can feel it, if you can know it, in every frequency, in every cell of your body, it's already there. It's already real. Time is an illusion. People. Time is not linear. When you feel it, when you embody it, when you know it within yourself, it is already there for you. But it's the logical mind that says, but I don't see it around us. And what do you mean? It's here already again. Time is not linear. We feel it in ourselves, in our higher self, deepest self centered self, and we let go of the timeline. We let go of how long it's supposed to take, or what exactly it's supposed to look like, and we tune deeper and deeper and deeper into the frequency. Know it is So, decide it is so, and let go. That was a fun little quip. So I wanted to really go deep with you guys today. It's not going to be a long process, but this is going to be more of an interactive episode where I'm going to be guiding you through a little bit of a visualization, and then I'm going to be asking you some questions. And so my invitation is going to be either to listen to this whole thing through, just receive, just kind of play with the ideas. Listen to it while you're washing dishes or doing something else, right, just entertain it and then perhaps come back right and go a little bit deeper and do a deeper meditative dive. Yes, or you can listen to this in more of a meditative state, and you can also do it that way. Or if you'd like, if you're more of a journaling person, you can take the time to pause throughout each question and just take the time to journal and really get a clear picture for the answers to the questions that I'm asking you, because it's really going to help paint this picture, it's really going to help vision exactly what you're calling in, specifically around the new paradigm of relationships, of dating, of creating relationships, of just embodying the radiance, the magnetism, the beauty that your heart has been longing for, that your heart knows it deserves, that your highest self, deeper self, knows you deserve. But often the logical brain has a hard time really getting in line with that, or really wrapping its tendrils around that. So we do this process to give the mind this spaciousness to start seeing these things, and slowly, those layers start to unfold. As you do this process, you might uncover, you might uncover some resistance, some discomfort, some frustration, or Oh, that feels so far off, or Oh, this feels impossible, or all sorts of different stuff. That's natural. That's actually the point, right? That's actually the point is to notice where those places are in yourself, and to not meet them with trying to change or trying to fix or trying to make better, or trying to say, Oh, if you don't stop feeling this way, then like this vision isn't gonna come true. That is not a compassionate lens, that is not a loving, supportive lens, we really want to approach anything that's going to come up and that's going to bubble up and be a little sticky, little uncomfortable, little bit unsure, little uncertain, or a lot uncertain or a lot unsure. We want to meet that with such deep reverence, such deep compassion, all of our fears, all of the parts of us that come up when we're leaning in and walking more and more towards what it is that we want, are naturally going to amp up in volume. And this is our opportunity to amp up the volume, on our compassion, on our listening, on our deep, deep, deep understanding, radical acceptance and just patience, patience for these parts of us to have their moment, to have their say and to also get curious what it is they're here to express. They might be here to protect you. They might be here because there's something that you haven't looked at that really needs to address, or it just might be a recurring theme in your life that just needs a little bit of patience, of understanding and of just this simple awareness that it's all perfect, that everything that comes up is part of the process, and as we continue to lean into the visioning, these parts continue to come up, and we learn deeper and deeper and deeper how to work with them, how to understand what it is that they want, what it is that they need, what's really going on. And there's all sorts of different practices that you can do that with. This is what I do in my coaching modality. This is the kind of work that I do, you know, in couples with individuals. And this is something that you can find throughout many different modalities, being able to understand different parts of yourself and really work with them. So if that's not something that you are familiar with, I think I'll make a note to do an episode on that.