I mean, I think what you just said there is so incredibly powerful. And I don't want anyone to miss the fact that what you just said in the way that you said it gave all the power back to the survivor. And it nestled their story, not in the incident, the trauma, something that they had no control over. It's centered on the looking forward, the potential, and the future and the journey. And I, I want your permission to like, just share a little story here, because I want to talk about proximity for a second, please do you know all he is talking about these incidents that happen around the world, but I have to tell you, these incidents, friends are happening in your backyard. And I want to tell you a specific story very quickly, that John and I experienced. I know, this is a difficult topic, but I am, I've been a donor to a little local organization here in Oklahoma, that helps children who've experienced childhood sexual abuse, which is called Bethesda. And when John and I were working in health care, philanthropy, I mean, in my heart, it just, it just felt like the world's greatest evil. And I just wanted to put something into that to eradicate it. And we had a mental health facility within our health care center for children. And there was a particular unit in there. And these children are like in lockdown, and it's like a prison for them. And they're experiencing all manner of trauma from anger management, sexual abuse. And I remember the first time we went over there, and got to know the director, and we were talking about philanthropy, and what can we do? And how do we be a light to these kids. And John, I know you will remember this, but we at and we had, you know, we had run through the heart hospital, we'd run through the cancer center, we've talked to all the cardiothoracic surgeons, transplant surgeons, everybody needs a building, everybody needs a 40 $50 million building. And we walk into this unit, and we ask them what they need. And they said, We need $10, Walmart gift cards, because so many of our children are lifted straight out of their homes during the time of these emergencies and crises. And we just really need to buy them clean underwear and socks, can you as a foundation help us. And I remember that hitting me in the face. And then we toured. And I remember looking at John, and when we tour that sexual trauma unit, the only word and this word has been bouncing around in my head since you talked about this first child, and the expression on her face. And the the word that I use when I turned to look at John was hollow. There was a hollowness in the face and emptiness. And there wasn't the vivacious joy, an energy that I'm used to seeing in my children and the kids, my children plays with. And we got to get back to the joy, we've got to get back to pouring into it. And I think an incredible starting plate is places what you're saying. It's in dignity, it's enjoy. It's in taking those dreams and aspirations and putting them right back on the path that they needed to be on. And it's about sitting there and holding, or holding hands or sitting beside and not touching and being respectful. And I and I just want to thank you for how ethical and dignified this conversation is in the way that you choose your words in the way that you keep leaning in. And I want to talk about this situation that you had where you stepped away from your nonprofit. And I know we have a lot of founders that listen to this podcast, we've had a pitch to us from our community, possibly having an episode on how to founder step away when they're so close. You did this. And you did it from such an ethical place. And we would love for you to tell the story about why you chose to step down from emerge.