So to go back to the characters. So Anatoly, Max and Rory's father grew up in the in the Soviet Union, and which, of course, was very repressive society, and in a lot of ways very violent. He grew up desperately poor and had to go kill rabbits for for food. He was bullied, and his response was to be violent in return to stop the bullying. But when he eventually gets to the United States and is raising his children, his older child, Max, is being bullied in school, and he had no idea what to do, he's like, Well, when that happened to me, I beat them up and, you know, and Rory says that won't work here. And he's like, Well, it'll all work out. And that was sort of his modus operandi, you know, it'll all work out. He seems to not have a lot of resilience, like it took such a big effort to get to the US, to build a life, and then that's that's all he can do. And so it's left to Rory to take care of her older brother. When she sees that their bills are unpaid, she sends her allowance in to make, to make a payment. You know, obviously it's not enough, but she thinks that she's helping to take care of the problem. Can you talk about kind of how that childhood set him up for life in the US, or didn't set him up?