She's like flips table, yes. No, really, it really is liberating when you say, Nobody needs to do like, I don't need to do it. You don't need to do it. It just doesn't need to get done right now. And I really encourage people to embrace prioritization over balance, because you can have different priorities, and not even just in different seasons of life. Because yes, we know that's true. But in different parts of your day, right. I know earlier in the episode, I was referencing blocking out time. So I try not to take meetings before one o'clock, so that I can give my wall first and foremost. So I can spend time with God at the beginning of the in like the first thing when I wake up and then so I can give my boys the first part of my day so that they don't feel like they she woke up and immediately went into meetings, or whatever the case may be, I homeschool, so it's also good time for my brain to kind of, alright, let's get this done. And I feel like me and my oldest son are always negotiating. Alright, so So here's what I'm gonna do for you. And here's what you could do for me. Like yesterday, the negotiation was if you guys get this done, you'll get extra time with playdough, right? So understanding the what you're doing, why you're doing it. And what can be delegated or dismissed is really important. Because I think we also just operate very blindly throughout our days, right? You can take routines that you had in previous seasons of your life, and you just kind of copy and paste them and completely ignore the fact that okay, that was a routine that you had when you were single. Okay, that was a routine you had when you were newly married. Okay, that was a routine you had when you had one child, now you have three, now you have four, right? You have two sets of twins, right? Like, we have to navigate this, we can't think that what worked for us in one season is going to automatically work for the for the other season. So having people kind of brain dump what they do, and then seeing, like, why am I even doing this? Are there things I'm doing? Because I feel pressured to do them? Are there things I'm doing because I don't believe that anybody else is going to help me. I'll give an example. I love as especially being home full time, I love going to the library with my boys. And there was a season where we were going to the library. And I remember one day I got them in the car. And I was like everybody, just get your students and get in the car. And I was like, wait, I'm upset. This is supposed to be I said, What am I doing? I'm going to the library, why am I doing it? Because I need to get the boys out of the house. And I was like, Can this be delegated or dismissed? It was a dismiss thing in that season, because I was like, you're not having fun, and they're not having fun, because you're upset and you're telling everyone to hurry up and put on their shoes. And when you get there, they're not even picking a book. So like, yes, in the very beginning stages, especially when I had my oldest son, we love going to the library, or our neighborhood library had all kinds of activities. I was like, Okay, well, now you're a mom of three. So what does that look like now? And maybe you go once every couple of weeks, as opposed to trying to go to every single free program that they have, because they have plenty. So that's a really practical example of somebody needs like, so what does that look like? Actually?