It varies. So like many things, it's on a spectrum, you have some people who maybe feel like maybe they're bothering other people. And then you've got people who just it's not on their radar at all, maybe they are narcissistic. And so it just doesn't really occur to them how it feels or how their mistreatment is impacting people. So if we have a loved one that is engaging in these behaviors, and trying to drag this in, and we're not comfortable, I really encourage people to have those conversations, to pull that person aside, not to have the conversations with everyone else, and then pull that person and say, we've all talked and there's a problem with your behavior. So you're gonna pull aside your loved one, and say, you know, I really care about this relationship, these are the things that I'm experiencing. So using AI phrases, I've noticed this, I feel this way, and then seeing how that person reacts and responds, and so for everyone, immediately, might be really new information for them, they might, you know, deny, they might make up some excuses, but then just see what that behavior looks over time when they've had some time to process what you've shared. And if a person is caring, and they're self aware, and their relationship is important to them, then they'll adjust. But if you don't see an adjustment, then you want to evaluate for yourself, is that a relationship you want to continue to pour into?