She begins. There is a famous Sufi teaching story in which a man loses his keys. He is looking for them under the streetlight, when his friend walks by, his friend asks, What are you doing? The man answers, I'm looking for my keys. The friend stops to help him look. They search and dig around for a long while. Finally, the friend asks, Are you sure you lost them here? And the man replies, No, I lost them back there somewhere in the dark. His friend stops astonished and says, Well, then why are you looking for them here? And the man says it's so much easier to see in the light, and this is what we do with our life. JOCO says we have a problem sitting in the dark, we don't really know what to do about it, so we look where it's light. In other words, we look where we're used to looking whether it's a problem with relationships, work, or whatever, we always tend to look and to act according to what we're used to. And do you think the man found his keys under the streetlight? No way. Often we don't even mind if we can't find the keys, what we want is an easy way to look,