Well, I'm glad you actually brought it up, because I think it's something I'm really, I did very, very consciously, I think the the awakening to feminism and the women's movement was contributed to that and made me in fact, look at the way the narrative. I mean, we like to talk about narratives that the narrative that I was handed, which was true, but incomplete. I would say it was there was nothing wrong with it, except that it wasn't a complete narrative. And I mean, I, I now, you know, when I think about it, or when I started really thinking about it, my father was killed a year and a half before the war ended. And I was really saved by my mother. I was in an orphanage at the time that the uprising happened. I was in an orphanage on the Arian side, my mother was passing. She had Arian papers. She was a maid for a Polish family. And she was left alone. I mean, she was 29 years old when he was killed. And she had a child, a hidden child in an orphanage. She had a phony papers, and the war dragged on for another year and a half. And she ended up basically when there was a second uprising. Most people confuse it called the Warsaw Uprising, which was the Polish uprising against the German It happened a year later on 44 in late August and then went on in September, which I mean, Warsaw was decimated by that. I mean, there was nothing left a wall. So after that, but my mother grabbed me she, she didn't have permission, but she basically kidnapped me from the orphanage and left the Warsaw. And she was very, she was isolated. She had lost contact with the underground. And by a miracle, she bumped into someone about a year later, that connect reconnected her. And that helped us. My point is that my father's picture hung and you know, in the auditoriums and it's Memorial meetings, but not my mother's. And my mother was you know, and the feminist movement made me aware of that. I mean, in that shout, I the prowl for a section is about her saving me. And I think, you know that one of the things that the women's movement did, I think, and that I am very, very much support is a whole redefinition of heroism. First of all, what is what is the heroism. And you know, Grace Paley is to say heroism as being able to put bread on the table when your family is hungry. That's how it was. And, and I just started seeing the narrative in a different way. And I started seeing, I mean, everybody that I knew whether they were Native Americans, or whether they were Chicanos, or they were African Americans, one of the effects of the women's movements, everybody went back to their home community and said, Where are the women? You know, everybody had the same kind of, you know, limited narrative and wanted suddenly. So, when I turned to Yiddish and Yiddish culture, or Bundist women wonders, or thought about my mother, I was, people think that this is very, you know, I don't know what, but it was really what everybody was doing. I did something except I did it towards the ocean Jews and you know, Jewish women. But mostly everybody I knew did that, you know, I want somebody said something about how special being an activist we're, well, ugly, well, you younger than I am. But you know, when I came out, anybody who came out was a had to be an activist. I mean, you couldn't avoid it. I think you were you were on the front lines in your whole life all the time dealing with stuff. So I don't consider it that oh, that, you know, unique or special or whatever. I mean. And so I think feminism, I think changed the way I looked at history changed the way I looked at my own history. And was incredibly, I think, transforming for me, and certainly coming out. I mean, that was a to me, that was a major shift. I don't know, we've never talked about coming out stories about I mean, something to talk about. But when I came out, it was like, the Holocaust took a different place in my brain. It was like I was coming into the present. And I had to deal with present issues that my parents had never even heard of. I mean, who knew about you know, gays? I don't know. They knew about them and certainly didn't talk about it in the Bund.