to the side. Yes. I mean, you see this with sexual assault, a lot of times, you know, people and even I talked to a lot of survivors, or victims, or however, like people who have encountered abusive behavior in that area. And a lot of times they'll say it ahead of time, like, Well, I was too drunk that night. Well, I was, I shouldn't have worn that dress. Well, maybe I knew I shouldn't have gotten into that party. Like, like, we have a culture that sets up so much gaslighting, particularly with women around that experience, that we ahead of time anticipate that somebody's going to say your reality of having experienced violence is not valid. Yeah, so I think in the workplace, a lot of times, you see, you see this, where it's even that experience of that, that women experience a lot of times of having an idea that having the man or a man repeat the idea, and then all of a sudden, everybody agrees with it like that, that can be a form of brainwashing or gaslighting, depending on the dynamic of it, where people are not validating your experience of reality that you have had this idea, you do work for a certain boss, and you bring it to the table, then the boss gets the credit. Like that can feel and that can feel because it doesn't validate your reality like experience of of brainwashing. We've also talked about being