The Buddha also said that we have our actions as our refuge. It is not just a matter of passively allowing, being present, and being the recipient of some deep inner or outer support for us – trusting that we do not have to do anything. Dharma practice is an active practice – there is doing that is part of it. Hopefully, what we are doing is learning how to act in ways that are wise, healthy, nourishing, free of strain, obligation, pushing, being busy, and free of conceit and self-consciousness – self-consciousness that is equivalent to being self-preoccupied.