And a lot of people miss it. But at the end of the day, it's pretty straightforward. Yeah. Right. Yeah. Love God and your neighbor, not just your neighbor. Yeah. Okay. But since we're talking about relationships, we have an oftentimes your husband, wife, oldest son, daughter, right, next door neighbor webs of relationship. co workers, you know, oftentimes, when you're talking about families, extended families, in laws, neighbors, co workers, churches, there's church churches, elder session, elder boards, Deacon boards, committee, pastoral search committees, you name it, you get these. You get a group of people in the room, and you start to certain crackles starts to develop. Competition, emotional throwing available, elbows, people positioning themselves. Yep, playing the game, working the room. Yep, etc. And you could, in many meetings, you could just set your iPhone on the table, and it will charge by itself by from all the crackle from all the people in the room. Okay, so let's talk a little bit about Friedman and triangulation and mimetic desire.