It's so interesting, because I, I do this a lot where like, I'll compare my experience to other people who have been through something big and, you know, life changing. And, and I love seeing, like, both the similarities and the differences, you know, like how you were saying, you kind of came in, right? Like, you kind of like, got rid of all of the extra fluff, and you just really focus on like, your kids and your family and, and just like, your thought process and everything like that, in me, I changed the exact opposite way, you know, I was like, all about staying home and being a stay at home mom, and I still love being with my kids and hanging out with them. But at the same time, I've kind of, I'm like, I'm just gonna, I want I want the whole world right to to be able to learn the things that I've learned and to know the things that I know now. And, and so I've had this like, big, huge desire to step out of my comfort zone. And to know that like I can, I can live differently. And I love that, like we're both on our paths, right? Like your path doesn't have to be the same as my path, even though we went through something kind of similar with, with our health scares and stuff like that. And they're still just as important. You know, I just think that's awesome.