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Are Penises Really Shrinking?

Sasha Graham25min

Speaker 1

00:00

Some of his, you know, ex, ex baby mama drama, whatever. And like she was really into him and like you. When she told me that I'm like do men really walk away from something that is valuable because somebody else told them that that's not what they should have or they should have something better, like, really.

Unknown Speaker

00:26

Yeah, that's a lot, you know, um,

Unknown Speaker

00:29

and I don't

Speaker 2

00:30

know that there's so many different ways to look at it you know and then it's like, well, is the friend Jealous is a friend, envious. Is that why the friend did that, like, who knows,

Speaker 1

00:41

man. I was like well maybe the friend didn't like the fact that he had a, I mean, from what I saw was a great relationship right. Maybe the fake friend felt some kind of way, like you know because he had somebody in the friend in it, right, so I'm thinking, you know, maybe it was sabotage you know I'm saying wholeheartedly. Yeah, like she's broke when I say she's like broken shattered like crushed because like you know in her mind, they were headed down the aisle and I'm like yo, like for another person so come outside from the outside, and tell you what you should or should not have, like, Yeah, especially when it comes down to like vanity, right, like when you base your whole relationship on how a person looks versus how they make you feel like, why. Yeah, I get it. This society is so warped. You know I was talking to my boss today and he was like, What's up what everybody needed like, you know, a big ass, or like,

Unknown Speaker

01:49

that's a great. Yeah,

Speaker 1

01:53

I'm telling you yeah like an HR nightmare. Like that and I'm like you know I don't like, I'm like, I blame the Kardashians right. I'm like, because everybody, everybody know how to natural body, most, most women had natural bodies right and when the reality show came out in the Kardashians, Kim was running around and she had the little teeny waist and the big behind and the face and everything like that like black women, and, you know, like Latina women and, you know, naturally look like that.

Unknown Speaker

02:27

Yeah, they always, always put now, every by Yeah,

Unknown Speaker

02:32

I don't get it.

Speaker 1

02:34

I don't get across it. Now you know and again I'm not, I love all races, But I'm very close to Asian woman now you know they're like really tiny they're petite, they're actually petite women. I haven't seen many of them curvaceous, this girl was, I made, I don't know, she went back to Miami. She could put some black women to shame, really into myself. Yeah, so like this whole world is vanity right everything yeah how it looks on the outside, which is scary, other people perceive it to be thinking, you know, like when are we gonna start getting our own minds. Yeah,

Speaker 2

03:17

Well you know we live in a society that everyone just follows like sheep and so and there's so many different examples of that, you know like, for me it's hard to wrap my mind around the fact that everybody wants this cut donkey dog like, I don't understand that, you know, it's like, It makes no difference, you know at the end of the day and it's like, you know, one woman competing against the next and it's like, but for what ultimately and this is like, you know when you're old and gray like that. What's so appealing about that but

Speaker 1

03:50

what do I know they, because at that age, You know, it's sort of how I feel about like, my boss and I was talking about inflatables not the women that can't, the women that can't afford to go to, you know, Dr Miami or whatever, they you know have like these like neighborhood pumpers, you know, so they inject you with some solution or some silicone or some something to make you know your darier bigger in it. And I'm like, you're willing to risk your whole life as a person in a hotel room,

Unknown Speaker

04:27

yep.

Unknown Speaker

04:28

A lot of women do. You should quantum who never went to

Unknown Speaker

04:33

medical school. Yeah.

Speaker 1

04:35

And all of this because, you know, you feel like you need, you know, a big ass, and I and I look at that, and I'm like yeah, I just feel like people are so the shells of who they really could be right. They're just not themselves, they're like, they're, they're hidden I feel like everybody's real self today is hidden. And, you know, it's like a sad because there's so much personality and uniqueness in us that we could be, you know, our fabulous selves with a flat AX right, I think so. And then when you get older, my thing is when you get when you get older, gravity's gonna happen, baby. Yeah, no amount of, you know, plastic surgery. I mean, I kind of look at Dolly Parton her boobs still sitting up but anyway, but like, you're going to eventually start sagging somewhere, it's not gonna matter, it really isn't, like, are you gonna need a tight body on the beach when you're at, or are you going to really want to like have somebody in your life that you value and that you love and have memories that, you know, nobody else can take away from you, it's like you're chasing, you know, the vanity and I just, I'm waiting for it to like, like one day like just wake up and I'm like this come on okay everybody's back to normal. I don't understand.

Speaker 2

06:10

Well the thing is is that, you know, in this day and age, everyone's about, you know, we do live in a microwave society when they're waiting which everyone one wants instant gratification, right, and you see a lot of YOLO you only live once, so people are thinking about right here right now, this very moment. And that is it but that's like,

Unknown Speaker

06:31

that's like,

Speaker 2

06:31

I'm not keen on on tattoos right I've never been, I also some of them,

Speaker 1

06:35

aesthetically when either, I get the handle ones in the sun I

Unknown Speaker

06:39

love hanging out right,

Speaker 1

06:41

always in the summer because I gotta look cool, right, but then wash off after like,

Speaker 2

06:46

Yeah, but I still love it, I think it's so sexy. So, so that's always been my point of contention with a tattoo and it's like, well, well, What, what can I get on my body that so compelling that I won't get, I won't grow tired of it and it won't be down to my ankles when I'm 90, you know. Yeah,

Speaker 1

07:04

I know I saw this the guy. I don't know these guys, I don't I don't follow mainstream but every now and again I see something corny Kardashians boyfriend Travis something,

Unknown Speaker

07:14

Scott and Travis Scott.

Speaker 1

07:16

He got like her name, like, literally right 10 It'll crop in on his body.

Unknown Speaker

07:22

Is that right,

Speaker 1

07:23

yeah I'm saying what happens when you guys are no longer together like Do you have it covered up with something that's

Speaker 2

07:31

what I see people do, but um, you know, I wanted to say like, something about what you initially said about your, your girlfriend, and the guy, you know, I, a former friend of mine right I remember I was involved with someone and I was like, deep, like knee deep, like really into this guy, and out of the blue just like happened, what happened to your friend, she says to me You know what, you know, this is entirely unsolicited, she's like you know what you're into him way more than he's into you. Wow. Yes, and you know and at the time I heard her and I didn't say anything to her. But then I was like wow and then I'm like okay well she didn't have a boyfriend, nobody was like trying to holler at her and I'm like you just met you probably were just jealous, like in that thing.

Unknown Speaker

08:19

There's a lot of people, you know, they're jealous of your relationship. Yeah,

Unknown Speaker

08:23

Speaker 1

08:24

think they will, they will do what they can or say like yeah sneaky little to try to make Yeah, like they will plant a seed Yeah. And you will water that seed and you'll let it grow and you'll let it grow and you let it grow and you could possibly potentially lose like the best person that you ever had, what cuz you are like him, you're, you're taking advice where your

Speaker 2

08:51

team, I didn't. I was like, What, you're like never bothered. The show goes on Sundays, I'm having a good time. Exactly. We're getting it in, please

Speaker 1

09:03

feel right, if it's, if it's meant to be it's gonna be right, but I'd be damned. Yeah, and somebody else come in right, I agree, here here right and what's wrong for me like who are you, yeah, but like, Who made you the authority like yeah you know like, Who told you that you could choose for me. Yeah,

Speaker 2

09:24

it could be you know, it could be like, like a fine line, but then the same former friend right. We used to party a lot, and there was another guy who was like really into that was really digging right to hooking up you know, living my best life, and she'd be like well. He's so ugly and tell him to his face and I could just look her like Girl, please. Like,

Unknown Speaker

09:46

I felt like same shoe

Speaker 2

09:48

because I was like, you could say whatever you want, like the show goes on like this is my, This is like my experiencing, you know, going with yourself like I'm grown,

Speaker 1

09:57

you know, that happened to me one time like I was mad. I was in my. My last relationship was like, when we first started they you can tell me nothing right, I was like in any, any way. And I went out with my sister and her my sister's best friends my also my friend. And so we all went out, we went to know what's a comedy show for my sister's birthday, that's what it was. And we were in the car, we're talking about and they were like yeah we know you are blue that you might have girls. And I'm like yeah you I'm all in love me nothing. And she was like sis but he ugly,

Unknown Speaker

10:39

though, what's your experience.

Speaker 1

10:47

Like don't you talk about my boyfriend. I was like getting defensive about it because I have boundaries you know I'm saying like, I mean like, I could say the same thing about your fiance, but I didn't like I was just like, you know, okay, that's your opinion. Yeah, that's fine. And, you know, It's not only check your opinion is not going to change how I feel about that person. Right. And that's the thing like a lot of people now, you know, like, I noticed a lot of guys, you know they're on Facebook friends with, like they post like their girlfriends picture to see what other people were going to say, Oh wow,

Unknown Speaker

11:26

a lot,

Unknown Speaker

11:27

that's a lot a

Speaker 1

11:28

lot right when I say it's a lot like they post a picture to see how many likes their significant other weekend. And I mean, I mean, it is so sad, where we are right now as a society as a whole. And you know I don't foresee it getting better but I'm just like, you know, I don't know what it's like I used to play Mortal Kombat and I'm like, I don't know what the next level is what the next level is but yeah I'm not prepared for. Yeah.

Speaker 2

12:02

Well, today we're going to be talking about something that's been in the news for the last couple of weeks and it really got my attention. And the title is our penises really shrinking. There's a new book out, it's actually warning people and talking about how industrial chemicals are making penises shrink and impacting infertility and and basically they're saying that when a woman becomes pregnant if she has a higher body concentration of chemicals like I hope I'm pronouncing this correctly. For valleycats, which, yeah, thank you, valleys, which are sounds like phallic but fun on words, which are widely used in Toys detergents nail polish, soaps, which is equated with a lower testosterone level, and which equates to smaller penises.

Speaker 1

12:59

Yeah, I mean I get, I, people are joking about this on social media. I am a faith based person, but I also believe in science, and I think it should be researched and really taken seriously. It starts in the womb, you know, when the pregnant woman has higher body concentrations of the chemicals that you just mentioned. It lowers the testosterone levels, and the development of her baby boy genitals are disturbed so that results in what they call, Valide syndrome, which, in May, includes a smaller penis size and also alters the hormones and I think people really don't take the endocrine system very seriously. But when I thought about this, you know, and I'm dating myself right now, I'm gonna date myself a little bit. But when I was growing up, most of the toys that we had were wood, Right, really. Yeah, like they had the blocks that were would like the little ABC blocks. And we had that little ugly phone with the handle revolutionized and during World War Two, and they wanted to preserve the scarce natural resources, So they, they started to produce this synthetic alternative, and that was what plastic was is alternative to the natural resources and I think what comes out naturally. That's what we're supposed to use right. I believe anything that's been naturally produced or naturally sourced, that is what we have for usage right, I feel like when we start to make synthetic forms of things and we start to cause problems, right. And I think that plastic production. They found that, you know it has endocrine disrupting chemicals, and it should be limited because it does not only cause a smaller penis. But it also causes also causes, you know, disruptions in the endocrine system, system so like thyroid issues, you know, glucose issues and things like that like we really don't pay attention to at night I mean, especially for pregnant women because they're you're consuming. You know, those chemicals you're consuming those chemicals and you're using, you know, just a plastic food storage container, you know I'm saying, Yeah, think about that like I store all the time and I meal prep, right, because my wife is kind of busy so I need to be able to miss grab something and go, but you have to think about the plastic containers that your meal prepping, and then you put in a plastic in the microwave, where there's radiation, right. What do you think that chemical is going to do to you. Yeah, well, clearly, you know,

Speaker 2

16:05

I think collectively most people aren't thinking about that, you know, unfortunately,

Speaker 1

16:10

now and I think about it is, let me tell you men. Some of them are not already working with a lot. Yeah,

Speaker 2

16:18

now that you say that the article was saying that it's even attributing to erectile dysfunction and I was like damn, isn't that a stretch,

Speaker 1

16:28

erectile dysfunction, infertility, yeah women who can't have children, yeah they're thinking that it's because of they you know have something wrong with them but sometimes. Honestly, it's just, it's, It's the reproductive development. You you develop issues, because of the hormones, and the hormone altering chemicals that you're consuming, so like a lot of people I know this one woman, she's like, she doesn't use anything but glass and silicone. Right. And she's real she's real freakish about it right yeah my thought was, I don't care about the wheels and like what I remember going traveling to a couple of countries and they were like yeah no straws, I was like who cares about this, I'm gonna just draw care about the wheels, whatever, but it's bigger than that, it's bigger than, you know, it's bigger than, then the life forms that are in the sea, you know it's bigger than trying to save them. It's actually really harmful for, for human consumption. Yeah,

Speaker 2

17:36

it's interesting because, as you were mentioning with young girls and fertility. I read something that said that the average 20 something year old woman is less fertile than her grandmother was at the age of 35, and it seems almost like a pandemic because you hear I, at least I do have so many women that are unable to have children for one reason or another. And growing up I don't remember this ever being an issue,

Speaker 1

18:06

massive thing, it wasn't like I feel like, again, when I started talking at the beginning about how things have changed, you know how you know people have changed not only the society, the culture has changed but what we eat what we consume the food, you know how the food is conservatives the things that they put in the food to keep it, you know, I guess, quote unquote, preserved presented for us. For Sale shelf life, it's it really we don't really consider it, we don't think about it because it's just you know, now we have a new normal. But no more. When I was when I was growing up, and again I'm dating myself here, like my grandmother grew her feet in the backyard. There is no like and run it. Like, I remember you know she had a garden. And I remember, you know, you know, she didn't. There was no like she would go to the meat market, but we didn't get many groceries like groceries and stuff like that all the vegetables and things like that. Like we didn't get a lot of stuff from the store. Yeah, the milk was fresher because you know if you consume dairy they used to deliver the milk.

Unknown Speaker

19:26

Where'd you grow up,

Speaker 2

19:27

yeah I I've never had that experience but I know many people do. They had

Speaker 1

19:31

like in the late 70s, they were still delivering. Alright, know that okay. Yeah, I mean, so it's just like, you know, the laundry detergent, you think about it now, right now. We used to have like the powdered detergent. And now, like, you know, I'm so fancy now and even like the liquid detergent, I like to do the pods right you know Okay, and I'm thinking, they got the liquid inside plastic right in a plastic bag, you know, and it's like, what chemicals are emitted from.

Unknown Speaker

20:07

Yeah,

Speaker 1

20:08

I don't want to what they're putting in the plastic to contain the liquid, and I like my mind goes to those places. Yeah. Things have changed and I think because they've changed we start to see our family's structure change like as far as like, how many children, people are having, like, you don't see people like my grandmother had 17 kids. Wow. Yes 17 And they all lived in a little house, and, but, and then, so I have like over 34 first cousins,

Unknown Speaker

20:44

that's not a lot considering 17

Speaker 1

20:46

Yeah 17 And now you know the average is where people are having, like, two, wow, like you see two, maybe three kids, and most of the time and, you know, it's like if it's a blended family we want a person had one before they got married one person had one and that's how you got to, or you had to like usually two or three is usually the maximum for a family. And I think it's because of the things that we're consuming. Yeah, you know, I think men should be concerned because

Speaker 2

21:17

I think we all yeah collectively I think we should we should all be concerned for for so many different reasons, but you know my paternal grandmother had eight children, right, yeah. So to have passed on however I have over 51st cousins.

Unknown Speaker

21:33

Wow. Well, that's why I said I was like

Speaker 2

21:36

okay 34 kids, grandkids and 17 I was like that's not a lot.

Unknown Speaker

21:42

Yeah,

Speaker 1

21:43

well I think what happened, again, you start to see, well, you start to see where, you know, slowly but surely, you know, they were looking at how many kids my grandmother had obviously it was like having me.

Unknown Speaker

21:56

Yeah, that's

Speaker 2

21:56

tough it's Doggy Dog it's like you don't get any individualized attention, nobody's gonna remember your birthday, like, you know, you're lucky if somebody remembers your name.

Speaker 1

22:07

It's like, I can tell now. Like, even with my, my family members like how they had like trauma growing up because it was so many of them, you know what I'm saying, Yeah, but we don't think about the effects that it has on not only the environment but on on our, on our physical health and on our reproductive system so you know the thing about it is, Listen, I'm telling you right now, the next generation. You know, if this is true, they don't be a lot of unsatisfied women. Baby, baby, baby list and unsatisfied.

Unknown Speaker

22:46

Wow. Well,

Speaker 2

22:47

that's a whole other topic because, you know, I'm sure he, you know there are a lot of women out here who are married to men with small penises, you know, some

Unknown Speaker

22:59

just general.

Speaker 1

23:01

I'm gonna tell this one story so I when I first my first time I got married, I wanted to marry. I didn't want to have sex before marriage and that was a mistake.

Unknown Speaker

23:14

My mother could talk about that with her second husband.

Unknown Speaker

23:19

Hey,

Unknown Speaker

23:24

dude, tell do tell women maybe they went that route and ended up with, you know, little bite size snicker.

Speaker 2

23:33

Same thing happened to you then. Hmm. So the same thing happened to you then.

Unknown Speaker

23:37

Yeah, like,

Unknown Speaker

23:38

I wait a minute, the Bite size maker and I stopped playing. Yeah, like a no. Yeah,

Unknown Speaker

23:46

seriously. Yeah, see, that's why he was. That's why he was impressed to get it on.

Unknown Speaker

23:53

Really. Yeah. So what did you do, who

Unknown Speaker

23:58

I had, Well we eventually, I got an unknown but

Unknown Speaker

24:02

did you really,

Unknown Speaker

24:04

that's interesting and that was a whole nother story one day we will do a podcast one of real real topic, why

Speaker 1

24:11

not in a moment. Oh, my, my, my life is full of stories I could tell you right now people like Yeah, well how do you know so much oh my god, I've been, oh my.

Speaker 2

24:20

Alright so I've you know what I think that's a perfect segue for our next podcast but you know as a little girl, my mom's second husband who I don't even remember, you know, and I remember years ago seeing a picture, you know I'm very inquisitive so I'm like okay well who's this guy, you know, she's like oh you know I married him and I'm like okay I never heard anything of him. I go so what happened, she's like well I divorced him and I'm like why she's like, does he had a small penis.

Unknown Speaker

24:47

I was just like Laura.

Speaker 2

24:49

Right. And then same thing, same thing as you she, She wasn't intimate but you know beforehand so she didn't get the lay of the land sort of speak. Yeah, sex is important, I think so. Otherwise we're siblings,

Speaker 1

25:03

and it's fine and you want to be cheating, I'm just gonna, yeah. But anywho.

Unknown Speaker

25:09

Well, on that note I bid you adieu, and visit they'll have a great one, you to provide.

Unknown Speaker

25:18

Hello. Hello.

Unknown Speaker

25:20

Yes, so, um,

Unknown Speaker

25:21

What do you want to talk about next week.

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