And to be sure that that this warmth that that Stuart talks about is there where where we can come to the practice with, with generosity and patience and kindness for everybody around us and also for ourselves this emphasis on warmth. Came to to STEWART I think it's fair to say through her teacher so knock ago Roshi, who was also saying yesterday where she kept rose first teaching teacher in Japan, and in meetings with remarkable women. Stewart talks about, about sewing remembers. Everything was strict, but warm, always warm, always compassionate. Everything, absolutely everything immersed in compassion. There was nothing that escaped him. Somebody told me about him going to about going to row Takuji. This was so unstable in Japan for a session. The session was just for monks. And this poor man's feet were bleeding from running back and forth in their rough straw sandals. He was exhausted and quite discouraged. So when Roshi came and looked at those sandals with blood on them, and they're in their place, he put soft slippers, inconspicuous, wonderful attention, he was so aware of each one of us, always turning every situation, however dark into some wonderful teaching. Keeping the feeling of embracing the whole Sangha when he conducted sesshin you are not just here for yourself alone, but for the sake of all sentient beings, I can hear him saying, Keep your mind pure and warm. Just to be doing that just step by step, simply step by step with reverence, reverence, and a grateful heart. This was that wonderful Solon. And just reading this memory came back off the very first time we were at the center, Richard, my husband and me. In fact, we we, during that, that trip, we we got married, Roshi Kapleau, married us, we'd been living together for some years. But now we we, it was meaningful for us fall for us to have a Buddhist wedding. But we came totally ignorant of what that meant. And I didn't have any special clothes, I thought I'd be getting married in my robe. And we were also supposed to have rings. And it was one of my first experiences of the Sangha grapevine that I mentioned to one person that we didn't have rings, and we'd need to go out and buy them. And it seemed like minutes before somebody had offered to take us to the nearby mall to find a find winning bands. And it just, it's at the time, it felt like the never failing help of the Sangha. This, this wonderful responsiveness that is such a hallmark of authentic Zen training.