And I am going to share exactly what I can tell you the moment this, the idea was downloaded. And it was March, I think it was the 13th of 2020. And this was when the world was starting to feel very, very chaotic and uncertain, and a lot of fear flying around. And I saw the beginning of, you know, coal countries, at at, at odds, you know, neighborhoods, family members, couples, you know, people were seemingly facing the same threats or potential threats, right to our health or to our politics or to our financial futures. But we were all reacting very differently, right? And then out, there was a lot of like, "well, how could you possibly have this reaction? How could you think that", you know, when I think this, and then that undermined a lot of relationships, because it was like, "Well, if you're taking this direction, then I don't even know you anymore. I can't even I can't even find compassion for you, because I cannot understand." So I was feeling you know, like you like, because I know, we have these similar emotional, you know, trees, where I was just feeling all of that and wanting to find a way to say "gosh, wow, we're missing compassion, because there's so much fear", the fear is rampant, and we've lost our ability as a whole, not everybody, but a lot, a lot of us to find compassion. And if we can't even find compassion for ourselves or for others, man, we just we don't have a fighting chance here. So I looked at, I looked at, you know, Maslow's hierarchy of needs, which is like a way old, you know, psychological theory about, you know, different needs that people have. And I looked at the framework that Gary Chapman proposes in The Five Love Languages, it has been around forever. And the way you know, oh, if you can understand maybe how you look at something differently, then your partner or your neighbor, or your boss or your cousin, Well, wow, maybe that can help to ignite some compassion, and then even open the conversation for some discourse. So that's really where this came from. And I thought, well, well, we're all scared of, we all want the same things. But we're all a little bit more scared of different things. So for instance, and it's funny, because it went through several iterations, I was calling them fear languages at first, which I knew I was like, unless I get Gary's, like blessing, Dr. Chapman's blessing on this, I'm not going to name it the five year languages. But that was the working title for some time. And I did, I spoke with his team. And it's a long story. But you know, we didn't we didn't move forward, like as a joint project at all. But, I didn't want to write a book that had the word fear written in it exactly. The time. So I was like, I, there's no one to do that. So you know, then it moved to anxiety styles. And then I said, Well, there's a, there's a, there are positive attributes to each of these styles. And there are attributes that are like no longer serving us, you know, that they came into being for reason, and chances are, were quite useful to us at a certain point in time, but maybe they're not serving us now. And then, on the positive side, like what are the traits that we develop from these styles that are our geniuses? That like, you really need to acknowledge and celebrate because not everybody can do that. And, right, we often, like, sit, you know, we often like poopoo, the stuff that comes easily to us, right? Because we think it's no big deal, we could do it, you know, in our sleep.