as Tongan Roshi goes on, he says more about the way we humans are socialized, to see ourselves as separate and apart. As well as lacking something. He says, almost everyone, as they reach adulthood, carries inside them a sense of lack, something is missing, something is not quite right. At first, we try to satisfy our Miria desires to get rid of this sense of lack. If only I could have things my way, I would have no further complaints. I know exactly what I need. But if you get one, you desire two, if you get two, you desire three, four, it's never enough. Again, trying to work our way up. We cannot ultimately be satisfied by getting what we want. And yet some people spend all their lives thinking that gratifying desires is what being human is about. So what he's describing is known as he Donek adaptation in psychology, constantly looking for more for the next thing. The next thing that we think will bring us peace, comfort, happiness. And then we get it, it's still not enough, we move on to the next. One kind of addiction really.