I am a relationship kind of person. I, I love making meaningful connections, whether it's the mom, the dad, grandma, the childcare provider, I don't it doesn't matter who it is, whoever that primary caregiver is, I want to have, first and foremost a meaningful connection and relationship with that caregiver. And I don't like to dive deeper than just the surface level. I love to know, you know, what's their dog's name, when was the last time mom and dad went on a date, when did they have a good cry,what are they making for supper, who's that wedding invite on the fridge for. I want to know all the all the stuff. Because when you know all the stuff, that's when they say, ah, she cares about me. She really she wants to know about me as mom, me as grandma, me, as you know, Sue the daycare ,the childcare provider. So that relationship work is what brings me joy. And because I pour into every child, and every family and to every childcare provider that I work with, I have the pleasure to celebrate those really amazing breakthroughs in their development, or in their family life, and their financial life, whatever it might be, I get to celebrate with them. But I also have the honor to just sit with and be with in the heaviness of an unexpected setback. I get to be by their side through the muck the yuck and the bad luck.