Now, the reason I think that this book is just so special is that it's not just talking about these myths in an abstract way, because, uh, you know, of course, it seems like a "normal" quote, unquote, self help book that is basically saying, you know, "don't be perfectionist, embrace your imperfections" and, you know, "embrace change", and that's the thing that's going to help you achieve the next level. But this book goes beyond that, it really examines why we have these beliefs the way that we do. And, for example, it really talks about the patriarchy. And this, this idea that the patriarchy is something that - and I'm specifically talking about female identifying people who have been living under the patriarchal system for 1000s of years - it really examines this idea that the patriarchy is an abstract thing in some capacity. Like, of course, we see blatant patriarchal beliefs in some ways, like the fact that women are not paid as much as men or female identifying people are not paid as much as men, or the difficulties when it comes to women and being fired from jobs because they are going to have children. Like anything, anything like that, of course, that is very blatant sexism against women. But this book takes a step beyond that. And it looks at the things that are even hidden, like the the hidden ways that society has trained us to be good girls. And it introduces this idea of messengers, the people in our lives, who unknowingly give us these ideas of patriarchal beliefs. And oftentimes, these messengers are people that we are looking up to, in order to learn. This could be our family members, our parents, this could be our teachers at school, and when we are children, we are learning these beliefs, unknowingly, from these messengers.