Whenever I have heard this story told by a clergy member, it has typically been a story of forgiveness. After Yusef is sold into slavery. They use their gift to become a leader of lands, and ultimately forgive their family. Forgiveness is not what the story is about. It is about the relationship between Yusuf and their family, and the tests, they put their family through to decide if they were in fact worthy of forgiveness, and the grain. It is an accountability story. This is a story in which a trans person actually gets accountability.