I have been around thousands of men. No, I have not slept with thousands of men. Well, maybe not. I don't think it was over a thousand. I was not a person who had any trouble finding a man. I was handsome but, it takes much more than good looks to get the hottest or most successful men.
My name is Roger Keyserling. My life's story began in New York, in 1966, by the way, the same time as Christian Slater. Unfortunately, I don’t remember much of New York since I was just a small child when I lived there. I have, however, been back there numerous times, so the majority of my memories of the Big Apple are from later in life.
From New York, at age five, we moved to Missouri near my Grandparents. I was younger than my classmates. The school was ok till about the 6th grade when I realized the guys were flirting with me because they could tell I was gay. This was before I even knew what sex was. I was raised Mormon. I danced ballet and broadway type shows professionally. Playing oboe and clarinet, I Toured Europe with an orchestra. Boy Scouts, yes, it happened. I earned Eagle Scout at 16 years old. I attended college but took a state-funded training program for behavioral Analysis. I worked in a chronic adult ward. That’s nice but very dangerous. I was very good at it, but I knew I didn’t want to do that type of work until retirement.
My mother and father worked Federal Jobs with the Social Security Administration until they retired. My sister is a graduate of Trinity University. I enjoyed living close to her when I was working and living in San Antonio. Now, she’s working for Social Services in Louisiana. To this day, my parents are very active in a variety of projects.
I lived in several cities and had good businesses or worked at good jobs. The biggest I owned was Keyhole Productions Studios. I booked shows with 150 employees in many states. That ended when I got shot being carjacked. I moved back to Missouri about 20 years ago.
My Many Likes are.
I like classical music, Chopin, Handel, Mozart, and Tchaikovsky. I love Hauser, the cello player.
I also like numerous types of contemporary music. For example, I am listening to Alan Walker Sing Me To Sleep as I write this.
I like reading mainly topics involving astrophysics and science. I enjoy good fiction on occasion.
I especially like reading research documents.
I like movies like Star Wars but also appreciate classic dramas and historical fiction. Auntie Mame with Rosalyn Russell as a favorite of mine.
I have a special love for classic cartoons in black and white like Felix the Cat, Betty Boop, and Popeye. I even named my dog Betty Boop. I enjoyed Games of Thrones and Dexter. South Park and NCIS, I have seen them all. Stargate, I like it.
In 2012, I started Key To The Web Company, which is my current business. I was already selling on eBay and successfully before Key To The Web Company. I flew to eBay HeadQuarters and was on eBay radio several times. My original products were Barbie dolls, other new toys, and pre-owned clothing, and sales grew. Then I discovered several opportunities for increasing my business, and Key To The Web Company was launched.
Our niche included a wide range of products, fast service, and lots of inventory numbers. Teaching and coaching jobs were starting then too. I did several interviews and shows online. eCom Blab was my favorite show. Shoppers or sellers could find anything they might be looking for from my site. Social Media Marketing became the key to my business success. Before long, I became an authority on Internet marketing and selling online, speaking at various events and eCom conventions. Key to the Web Company websites and services Outgrew product sales.
My company took off because I didn’t charge ridiculously high rates and all the information I usually provide for free. Other types of businesses started using my websites. Blogging I began to do, which led to me publishing and writing.
I have CryptoCurrency Information free Now. I do more coaching and making websites. I also am publishing my Encounters and Seduction Secrets book—Mercari for products and Redbubble for my Designed Products. I have free Apps and classes available on my sites.
I hit 55 years old, and I look young for my age, but when I pass a mirror sometimes, I wonder who that is.
I knew several famous people and was introduced to many more. I was handsome, but the real reason was my deep voice and humor. The second reason was I have never been impressed or cared about wealth at all. I have turned away a fortune from men. I have been broke and very wealthy and am just as happy either way.
One of the things I've noticed when thinking about sex with a man is that my perception of what I do and what's done has changed quite a bit over the years. One thing that has never changed is I am attracted to tattoos on masculine guys. When I was young, I was always attracted to much older men. I was not attracted to men my age. I never really thought of finding a partner and making a life together in a monogamous relationship. In college, I met a man that I began to feel for, and he was madly in love with me. It was him that suggested we have a monogamous stable type relationship. I liked him enough that I decided to try it. I found it very easy because even though I never thought of being in a relationship, I didn't randomly go with anybody. I was with him for many years, but eventually, we grew apart, but during all that time, we remained faithful to the end. At this time, I have never really been single except for being very young. So I decided to have a good time. And I did. If you read any of my stories, most of the activity was before 35. And believe me, it was perfect and fun. But as time went on, I became less interested in meeting men. I was busy with my business and other money-making endeavors. Life has a way of changing things, though, without really your decision.
There are a few turning points in my life, but I'm just going to mention one being carjacked; I was running a real successful business. And one evening, I was driving home, and I got carjacked at the gas station. Long story short, I died, I came back, I had a long recovery. I didn't have good insurance, I lost my business, and I was broke. At this time, I didn't have a lover. But I had a boyfriend that I had been going out with for years. But I found it wasn't enough; I found a new boyfriend and ended up in a very long-term relationship. After years and years, sex was no longer involved. This is where things changed again; I started to desire different kinds of relationships, yet I didn't do any of them. My love life became more internalized and mentally played out. And after years of not engaging in sex, I realized that my life was short. And I have desires that remain unfulfilled. This is where it gets tricky for me because I have two things that I want. I want to go out and have tons of sex that I haven't done in years.
And on the other hand, I want to love to cuddle and love till the end of my life. There are many problems with trying to do this as an older man. The biggest thing is you don't meet people the way that used to be done. It's all profiles and chats online. And most people are only interested in sexual activity, no relationships. There's nothing wrong with that, except that everything gets very quick and shallow, and fake, including most people. I've noticed that I am still primarily attracted to the same type of man I was when I was a young man between 30 and 45 years old I like, but there's a big problem with that when you're 55 years old. I was always the cute young thing. Now I'm a good-looking old dude. Another considerably different thing is that I have always been at the top my whole life except when I was very young. But my desire to be a bottom has always been there. Now I desire that a lot also. So at times, I consider just going back to my mental state of self-pleasing and ignoring reality and physical needs. Last year I had a stroke. I don’t have cholesterol or any heart issues. I have odd-shaped white blood cells that can clot. Medicine and effort, and I am also entirely normal. Just not going mountain climbing. I do have a glimmer of hope, still good-looking and alive.
Suppose you want to have anybody you want and find your Mr. Right. Or if you're going to see a Mr. Right now. With Almost 50 years of experience with all types of men, I learned a lot. The 150 men I employed shared what they knew about men and their experiences with me too.
Interestingly, we associate seduction with sex, when in fact, true seduction is not sex. Seduction is not about the culmination or gratification of desire. And it is about the thrill of the desire itself. It is the game that is played. It is exciting as the urge comes closer and closer. Being able to maintain that tension of wanting for a long time is best. Seduction is about making him like you. It is not necessarily letting him have you.
I try in my stories of Seduction and Sexual Encounters to include seductive and sexual information. I share the good and bad, and everything in between.
I have mentioned that I had a large business for several years, Keyhole Production Studios. It was a male stripper company. We put on big shows in the larger nightclubs throughout the Southern United States regularly. We also booked tours all over the country. It wasn't a small operation or an easy job.
It all began with 13-inches. I was working as a daytime bartender at happy hour. I loved my part-time bartender job. I had never been a bartender before, and I got good at it. The bar was getting a large afternoon crowd, and even some famous people would pop in to chat during their lunch hour. The bar always had a stripper on a box with the light above them jiggling for two hours. Nighttime on Thursday, they put on what they called "The Show." A song played, a guy would walk out the stage, then he stripped, and that was it. I was a happy hour bartender, so I never saw the shows until I was asked to work a night shift. They needed an additional bartender. I agreed.
I knew a lot about costumes and performances. I have been in ballet and off-Broadway shows. I learned how to dance. Thursday night shift, the customers were delighted to see me there at night. I’m watching the stripper show. The guys were all cute, but they didn’t know how to dance. There was nothing special about the show at all. The bar closed, and I was talking to the owner. He knew that I had been a professional dancer and asked me what I thought. I asked him, "Is all that ever happens in the shows?". The bar owner said, "Yes," and continued to tell me that it was costly and the company always sends the same performers. I asked him how much he paid and he told me. "What?" I exclaimed after hearing the amount he was paying per dancer.
The following Thursday, one of the dancers was visible to me from my workstation. Let’s call him Rico. He was standing on the box with the light above his head. He was very sexy at six feet tall with all the proper bumps, shapes, and portions. Sexy in all the right places. I liked watching him gyrating and jiggling to the music. He danced pretty well. I noticed that his T-Back was extremely big. His cock was huge. When I took my break, I decided to talk to Rico. I bought a couple of dollars and talked to him while adding dollars to his T-Back. Rico bent down and whispered into my ear, "Look down." I looked down, and he had pulled the top of the T-Back open. Inside I saw his huge 13-incher, the biggest I had ever seen.
I found out that he was not given but only a quarter of the money paid for him in the booking fee—also, 20% of the tips he had to give to his agent. By the way, Rico liked me, and he was flirting with me heavily. So I slipped him my phone number.
Rico called me one day out of the blue. We had a great conversation on the phone, and he asked me if I would mind him coming over. Of course, I said, "Sure."
We are sitting in my living room talking on the couch all about his stripper career and the company he works for. He mentions that many of the other performers are pissed off because they’re paying ridiculous amounts of money and not getting that many jobs. My egg head started working. At that moment, I realized that all I needed to have was several performers, and I could train them how to dance and put on a fantastic show.
I didn’t say anything to Rico at that time because I was more interested in getting him in bed. Rico says as he is standing up, let me put on a show for you! He strips for me to end up completely nude. Rico gives it to me as he is looking at me. He had smooth skin, no hair, washboard stomach, and that enormous Cock was fun.
A couple of weeks later, I was talking to the owner of the bar bartending. He gave me the names of all the other bars that use the agent that he did. I began calling. I asked them if I could get the price down by 25% and put on shows with choreography backdrops and themes they would be interested in? All but one said yes!
I Was allowed to use my bar for rehearsals. I ran an ad in the gay newspaper asking for performers. Rico brought ten guys that worked for the old company. It was a nightmare trying to teach these gorgeous men to dance. Some of them were just too bad to train. Finally, word got out to the bars that I was doing this and had rehearsals.
For our first show, I had a giant backdrop painted with phosphorus paint that would glow in black lights. I had three guys dancing on the stage at the same time, interacting with each other. They were in white unitards painted with the same phosphorus paint. It was a cute little number. The lights were all normal until they began to strip their unitards underneath. They were skin-tight, and as they undressed, the black lights were turned on. All you saw was the glowing unitards painted. We had several other sets, a country-western theme and a leather theme. Next week's show was huge! Soon the bar had to have three showings. It was packed and had a waiting line that went entirely around the block. All just to see my shows.
I know it sounds great. Hot, right? Well, it was really hot, but it had a severe problem. It's called my ethics. I knew better than to screw around with my dancers. And for the most part, I stuck to my rule. I did date two of my dancers for a very, very long time. It was more of a relationship than screwing around, but I never just had sex with the dancers. I could have too many times. Now that I look back, I probably would have made a different decision and enjoyed myself.