Yeah? My gosh. I mean, this could be its own episode. I will try to keep it brief, yeah, safeties is a huge factor. I work from home. I live in a house that's, it's a triplex, so it's three apartment units in the same building. So there are other people who live in this house, but when I'm working, I'm alone, I will live on the main floor, and nobody's here when I'm working, and sometimes nobody's in the house when I'm working, because my housemates have lives, and it's kind of it can be kind of a sketchy neighborhood at times. There's a lot of poverty and mental instability, and and I'm a woman, and I'm five feet tall, and I work out every day, but I can't overpower most men, and so Safety has always been a huge feature for me. So some of the things that I do, I I only work with cisgender men, which is men who were people who are assigned male at birth and still identify as male. I only work with them through direct referral, so they have to be referred to me through somebody I already know or an existing client, ideally a woman who's referring them. So I work with a lot of husbands and brothers and fathers and things like that, but about 5% of my practice is men. The other 95% is women and people in between. So that's the biggest safety feature. Is just heavily vet the men that I work with. Some people call it sexism or discrimination. I call it statistics. Just open a newspaper. I mean, like 99% of violent crimes are perpetrated by men so and I don't want them in my house. And then there's also, massage therapy is often kind of conflated with sex work, you know, central massage. And I don't want there to be any confusion, and I don't want someone on my table who's seeking a service that I don't offer. So I try to really present myself very professionally. I have professional web design, I have professional photography. I make sure not to share any photos publicly of me, you know, in a bikini or and I this. I'm all about like, Girl power and women wearing whatever they want. And this is my business, and people can sexualize it, so I'm very cautious to, you know, cover up. And I also think this is really important, a feature that a lot of people don't really fully understand. Being expensive is a safety feature. I've heard so many horror stories about women being caught alone in a room with a man who gets aggressive or, you know, touches himself in front of them, or expects some kind of sexual service. And then I look at their website, and they're so cheap and they don't require a credit card on file, and they. Stock photography, and they don't have any kind of niche or targeted messaging. And I say this not to victim blame, but to empower people. It is not at all surprising to me that these types of people are contacting them because you're not taking the steps to protect yourself. I I think that, honestly, being expensive is a safety feature, because people look at my website, they see the professionalism. They see that it's well designed. They see that in order to even request an appointment, they have to leave their first name, last name, phone number, email address and credit card number to even ask to see me. And they see that at minimum, as as of this recording, I'm going to charge them $170 plus tax. That's, that's where I start for an hour. If they're looking for something that I don't offer, or they're going to run, they're like, they're going to see that no, this is, I run a tight ship, and I mean business. And I flat out say on my website, like, it's for women. You know, my practice is for women and trans people, so all of that, those are like my safety features that I just have just existing on my website. That's before I even contact somebody. And then I still do, on occasion, get men calling and emailing, asking for massage, and I just say, No, I There are so many other massage therapists in the area, there's a clinic around the corner that's been there for over 10 years. Like, I just looked, actually, on Google Maps yesterday, I just did a search for massage in my area, there are like 20 people within like, a 15 minute walk. Like, I cannot stress this enough, especially to the women, it's okay to say no. Like, if your spidey sense starts tingling or you are unsure of someone's intentions or what they're really looking for. I feel like there's this. I feel like women don't even see saying no as an option. And to me, that's like my default setting. To me, I'm like, no, no. You have to earn the right to come in here. Like I have to be really confident that we're a match. So I say no a lot, and they call me and they email me, and they might seem perfectly harmless, and I'll say, Hey, this is my policy. Go ahead around the corner, because it's it's just not worth it, I see. And if you go in these Facebook groups, if you're active Facebook at all, and you go into these massage therapist Facebook groups, and I've seen so many screenshots of people sharing like text messages or emails from men who are looking for massage, and they'll say things that, to me, are so obviously signs of men who are seeking sex work, like they'll say things like, Oh, I'm a trucker, and I'm just in town for the weekend, and, you know, I really just want focused attention on my glutes, you know, quads and abdomen. And these women who are working alone, and the guy wants a massage at like, 10pm and they're like, oh, okay, I guess you don't have to say yes to this. Like best case scenario, you know, he's harmless, and you get 100 bucks, but like, worst case scenario, you end up in his trunk. That's just not worth it to me. So I'm picky with my clientele, and I really think there's something really powerful, and all of life, I promise you, all of life, will get infinitely better once you get comfortable with saying no, because the person who has the ability to walk away from the situation holds all the power. And this is true in business. This is true in dating. This is true in interpersonal relationships. If you have the confidence and the ability to walk away from the situation, then you don't ever have to settle. Yeah, that's