It's gross. I remember reading my type thinking how does someone know that now I don't even know that about myself, ew. I also want to let you know that your type cannot change Enneagram types. Teachers of the Enneagram say that Enneagram types are sort of attached to people as they sustain wounds in childhood. And this statement can be misleading and it can sound really dramatic. But even if you had an amazing childhood, your your caregivers do not have the ability to love you perfectly. And so you can kind of dig a little deeper and think like how, how did this type become assigned to me? How did I sort of take on these motivations? Okay, So I'm going to go through these types using what are called the three triads or centers of intelligence. All right. So the first one is called the heart or feeling triad. And this is going to be types two, three, and four. And these are types which are located in the heart center. And that means that they are guided, first and foremost, by their emotions by their feelings. And so that's the lens through which they view the world. It's the lens through which they make decisions. So that's two, three, and four. So we're going to start with type two. And this type is called the helper or the befriender. And I love the title, the befriender. For this one, the Type Two is warm, caring, and giving. They're motivated by a need to be loved, liked and needed, and to avoid acknowledging their own needs. Their primary need is the need to be needed. The magic words for two words that will make us drop absolutely everything I'm apt to as well just gave it away are the words I need you. A lot of times we'll drop everything if we hear those words. But twos are open hearted, they're giving. They're generous and gracious. They're often described as people who will stand beside people who are going through a difficult time, they give freely of their time and resources. For other people, they work tirelessly to help improve other situations. They are great listeners and afirmers. And they're good at remembering and appreciating the stories of others. So Riso and Hudson , who are great Enneagram teachers say that twos impart a measure of acceptance, and appreciation that can help others see their own value. They are highly empathetic. And it said that this is the superpower of the two twos can walk into a room and immediately take the emotional temperature of a room and it's a gift. But that's part of the work of a two is to determine what is ours to care about. Right? We can care. But what is ours to actually engage with? What can we do in that moment? All of this attune to other people's feelings is a beautiful thing, as I say, but it means that we have a difficult time sometimes accessing our own feelings. We feel guilty about burdening other people with our feelings and our issues. Because we're afraid that if we do, we will face rejection, which is the two's biggest fear, right to be unloved and unwanted. And so because of our denial of self, we can be prone to burnout. And, Becky, I know that you talked about this during your mental health series and friend, Bravo for that, also, and I'll get through this quickly. But unhealthy twos can tend to be manipulative on the surface, they seem altruistic and very giving. But sometimes twos will give to get right if our primary motivation is to be loved and needed, we will do for others because we want the same in return. And so that again, is part of the work of the two is to keep that in check. And that's where our deadly sin comes in the deadly sin from Dante's Divine Comedy. Ours is pride, which at first seems counterintuitive, like twos are sweet and even keel. But it's the pride of feeling as though I know what you need more than you know what you need. Yeah. And that's not great. But again, at their best twos bring lots of love and warmth and high levels of empathy, help and personalized care to the world. And I'm so grateful for twos and I'm grateful to be a two. Okay, so the next one in the heart triad three, the achiever the performer or the motivator, right is the number three. So three is are success oriented image conscious and wired for productivity. They are motivated by a need to appear to be successful, or to be successful and to avoid failure. And so to emphasize the core need of the three it is the need to succeed. They're efficient, competent, goal oriented and productive. They're excellent leaders. They love inspiring others and helping others achieve their goals and improve themselves. And threes make incredible mentors. My dad is a three and I see this he absolutely lives for the days when people seek him out for his wisdom, when he can help them come compile like a speech or in my case, a sermon. He lives for that loves to help people improve and be their best selves, which is a gift. Three's love to make great first impressions. They can adapt to any situation and like the two they have a sort of social thermometer. They can walk into a room and see what's needed. But unlike the two who is always asking like Do you like me? Does everybody like me? The three is asking, Am I Am I successful? Am I coming across in this moment? So threes are competitive sometimes to a fault. They love to win. And they like other people to know about their accomplishments. They get their life energy from their successes, and they love praise and accolades, they love to get a trophy they have and this is another gift that they bring, they have seemingly endless amounts of energy. My boss, my pastor, my friend, is this way, I am so amazed by her energy, it is unreal. And I'm jealous, because she makes everything look so easy. But because so much of the worth of a three is tied up in their achievement, they can be prone to workaholism, if they're not careful. And as I mentioned before, threes have this ability to be who they need to be in any given situation. And so a lot of times they have the most trouble of any type, perceiving their own feelings. They are mask wearers. I've heard them called mask wearers, and I and again, this is just being who they need to be in every situation. And this is where the deadly sin of the three comes in. It is deceit. And this was one that was added later, in modern, more modern era after the the Middle Ages. So yeah, it's deceit that mask wearing and this practice can lead them to disconnect from who they really are. So that's part of the work of the three is staying in tune with who they really are. But again, at their best threes are adaptable. They're inspiring. They're ambitious, energetic, high achieving and motivated, and I am so grateful for threes. Okay, so the four, the four is the last type in the heart triad, they are the romantic or the individualist, their core need is the need to be special, they need to be unique. They're creative, they're sensitive, they can be a little moody, this is not always a bad thing. They're motivated by a need to be understood, experienced their oversized feelings and avoid being ordinary. I've heard it said that fours are the rarest Enneagram type. I don't know if that's true. But fours would love to believe that that's true, because