Me too. And I think that's a great explanation. The other thing that can happen, and it's pretty universal, is that when we've had relationship, trauma in our childhood, or when there's been chaos in our childhood, because of mental illness, or addiction, or raging, then what tends to happen is that coalition's form in the family. And so then you have, as adults, you have, you go to lunch with your sister, and your sister wants to talk about the past from her lens. And it's not the way you see it. Or you have a very different perception of what happened with your parents, and your sister or brother doesn't. And so that's where the past, the unresolved trauma comes in and interferes with our current relationships. And our goal in our program is always to help people with what's happening currently, so that they can continue to move forward and heal and find peace and joy.