Yeah, I think that's really hard for them. So, you know, like I said, my, my mom comes from a big family and they spend a huge amount of time together like they were our best friends. Growing up my cousin's, you know, we spent all of our time together, we spent Christmas day together every holiday together. Every weekend, my mom's over one of my cousin's houses today. Just you know, seeing how she is. And we've talked about what they move over here, obviously, visas aside, etc. And then I think it's hard to leave your own friends and her sibling group, you know, because her family is still all alive and well, and actually, very few of our extended family did emigrate. But I think it's really hard for them now because I think you look around and if my Mum My mum likes to likes to cheer up any occasion by saying, what's it all about? You know, so I think she, you know, she is doing a lot of that now like, what's it all about? You have these kids and, and it was always quite selfishly, a great reassurance to me. And it was a great easing of my own guilt to know that Rosemarie was there if anything happened. And now I worry about like, what if, I mean, at the same time, it was very selfish, because you know, if something does happen, she's there to take care of it. And I don't have to necessarily fly over immediately or take time off work or, you know, and eventually when they do, you know, die like everybody well, and how you know, who's going to take care of the house? How are we going to sort out the furniture, all these ridiculous, but I mean, also, we joke because we actually had a bad last time. How long will it take mom to talk about her funeral? When she gets off the plane? She's always talking about her funeral.