Well, that actually very much comes from my own opinion. But it's actually when you think about it a very Jewish opinion, because think about Yom Kippur war, you know, just saying, Sorry, isn't enough, you're supposed to make amends. So to me, Judaism has always been very much about actions, not words, as opposed to, and I apologize, because I have a very weak understanding of Catholicism. But the idea that isn't there an idea in Catholicism where a thought is as bad as a deed, which is sort of the flip side of that. But in Judaism, it's all about not just what you think, or what you believe, or even what you say, but what you do. And that's always been a big thing for me that people can use pretty words. And you know how people in movies, they make big dramatic gestures, like, you know, and say anything, he's standing outside the door with the boombox music, and the big rush to the airport and the room full of daisies, or whatever flowers? Yeah, that's really nice. But can I tell you the most romantic thing my husband did recently, please, actually, my my book, Mother's Secret, a novel of the Jewish Autonomous Region came out on Tuesday, November 15. And that morning, my husband got up very early, and he cleaned the toilet. And that was his way of saying, It's a big day for you. And congratulations, and I love you, and I support you. So that, to me, was a more romantic gesture, than if he had filled the bathroom with 10,000, daisies and the toilet. So that's where I come from. And that's where that speech comes from, is that I really think love, whether it's between spouses, or parents and children or friends or anything else is expressed through actions, not words, which again, I think is a very Jewish sentiment.