It was a bad vintage. It was a really bad vintage personally and professionally. A lot of DS Yeah, exactly all the days. But you know, like to pick up on both your points. This the turnaround in terms of deciding to write about it publicly. I mean, I kept it well, I kept talking with women in the industry, because what happened was pre me to pre Harvey Weinstein. And then the wine industry is so clubby. I mean, there is a real social grapevine where you can get delisted very quickly. ostracized. So after that, those five years, and after hearing so many stories, I thought, well, you know, I've heard memoirs say, Well, I write my story. So other people feel less alone. I thought, well, what does that really mean? If our situations are so different? Mine and the readers? How can my story help anybody? And so I need to think about that for a while, like, what am I doing here? But I think, you know, I make the comparison, like when we're parents, and we all have, I think children, adults in their 2324 ish range. But when they are little, we ask them questions. So are you hungry? Are you sad? You know, because we're trying to give them that vocabulary to express their emotions so that they don't have to always resort to crying and tantrums and just screaming. And I think as adults, we forget that our emotions, feelings get more complex as we age. And, you know, Brene Brown, I love her Dr. Brene Brown in her Atlas of the heart book, she she deals with 87 emotions, because we've lost, we were either lost or don't have the vocabulary to express ourselves. But when we can express ourselves, when we find the words, I think it unlocked something in us, whether it's peace or relief, or whatever. So the stories that I'm getting back from early readers is that they are finding themselves in this book, but through a completely different experience. And, you know, they may not have gone through a divorce, but they've probably felt loneliness, or the longing for love. They may not have been, you know, chased down by an angry mob online, but they've probably felt career disappointment or fear of the future. So what I think good memoir does is allow you to experience all those emotions, put names to them, articulate them, but that you can go through somebody else's story safely, and see how someone can emerge on the other side, you know, stronger, wiser whatever.