yeah, but I think it's really like the dynamism that Arthur presents about being energized about Muggle artifacts, and having time for the silliness and having time for having a joke with his kids and being very sort of laid back parentally in a way that is very sort of affectionate, to giving them space, that complements Molly's style quite well, because like you say, she couldn't be a bit of a helicopter parent, you know, she can be a little bit. I don't want to say dictatorial, but she, she likes things done a certain way, she has certain expectations. And for Arthur, to really get a sense that he is in this for the long term for Arthur to invest in this idea of a family and invest in this idea of a future with Molly, I think he has to, for himself, champion, that side of him that is silly, and that does put, like you say, put your passions ahead of your prospects, because I think he I think it's a side of alpha that's often underplayed, but a lot of what makes his character so redeemable and lovable and just, you know, recognizable to us, is that sort of goofy. You know, the, there's a, there's a part of him that I don't want to say, never grows up, but he's always in touch with that mischievous side of himself. And, and I just really feel like for Arthur, and from his perspective, like keeping with because, like you say, he could, you know, at some point, he could have gone off with Lucius, at some point, he could have had other relationships, but in the context of this discussion, and for the purposes of this episode, the reason he sticks it out, is because there's such an atmosphere that is conducive to making everybody in that family feel loved and valued for who they are. And that comes from that sense of, you're fueled by your passions, and not just by what you can do or what you can achieve. And that's so different for From other pure blood influences, like the way other families might put these pressures on their children, look at the way the Malfoy is out with Draco, look at the way there's so much pressure on him to constantly be the prodigal son. You know, it's I'm not, I'm not saying that there are no pressures in the Weasleys, of course, like you say, because of the fact that they're, you know, they struggle for money, there are, you know, economic pressures there, which you have all sorts of other social implications on, on what they do. But within their family, and as a family unit, they support each other and love each other and stick up for each other. And I think that is so if that is so fundamental to why we love the Weasleys as a group, is because that's what that symbolizes. And that's why Harry feels at home there as well, because it's a sort of unconditional love that he hasn't been privy to.