Are they Yeah, are they, you know, explode and get very confrontational, you know, or any number of things? Yeah. Um, but I'm kind of getting clear about my ideas, too, because I do think that, that confrontation, and withdrawal has to be built in or baked into empathy somehow. So like, when you're talking about the listening and the talking, like, is there some way in which those, though, so withdrawal and confrontation is spoken to? Because there's all these dynamics that happen? And what if someone in the circle says something like? You know, I'm having a really hard time right now, or, you know, I, I disagree with how things are going right now. And then what if everyone else when is there time to talk doesn't say a peep about that, you know, or what about conversely, if everybody else comes to talk, and then it's very, like passive aggressive about, you know, what that person has said, you know, the toxicity that was brought in, so where is the where is whereas the empathy there? I mean, is it just in the, we're gonna listen to each other, and there's, there's bound to be material that is related among all four of us that we can then kind of, we'll just keep talking and it'll get, and I think that does happen. Like, it feels like a very high percentage of times, like night, you know, 95% of the time or something.